Kowts IV

151. I'm not really asking for much.
just someone
whose eyes i can stare at forever
who will snuggle to me in the cold of the night
& there find the warmth of her/his life
who will stay awake with me to see every sunset & sunrise
& swear whith her/his heart & soul that we are sharing the love our lifetimes..

152. isang araw pwedeng mawala ang pag-ibigan iningatan mo. lahat ng saya mauuwi na lang sa alaala. lahat ng pangarap hindi na matutupad, pero ganun talaga.
"hindi lahat ng hawak mo sayo na"

153. "maybe people need to be numb at times. it is like a defibrillator that shocks the heart to stop for a while. to give it a chance to beat again, alone .... on its own."

154. To lose weight is the number one all-time resolution which people make. Watch also the weight of your heart. Anxiety is the fat that burdens the soul.

155. no matter how many coins you throw into a fountain, or the number of fingers you cross... if it's not meant to be, it simply won't happen..

156. All the waters in the ocean could never sink a ship unless it gets inside. Likewise, all the pressures of life can never hurt you, unless you let it in..

157. you learn to like a person by knowing what makes him laugh but YOU only learn to love a person when you take the effort to know what makes him cry - Anonymous

158. Receptive Aphasia: inability to comprehend spoken language and may suggest damage to the Wernicke's Area.
e.g.
Boy: i love you
Girl: huh?!... :p

159. every relationship has its own story. it might be good or might be bad, might have happiness or more with sorrow. but you are the author.. you can end it up with tears or with smile.. just be a good writer..

160. "soulmates can never be found by grasping every hand you see and testing if your hands fit together. its that someone who stare back at you at the other side of life when you stare into space and lose consciousness of everything around you. then feeling a few seconds of what eternity means.."

161. if you're in doubt with what you feel, better not express it. otherwise, no one would take you seriously.
so if you're mad, be mad, or people might think you're fooling around.
if you're sad, be sade, or people might think you're just seeking attention.
if you're happy, forget about worries or people might thing you're pretentious.
if you're in love, mean it or else you won't get it back..

162. everyday i wish for someone to love and who will love me in return.
today, i'm gonna wish something else... the maturity to realize that if it wouldn't come.. i would still be fine..

163. Love is like a lost object. If you search too hard, you won't find it.
But if you just forget about it momentarily, it will show up in the most unexpected way..

164. Care is the sweetest form of LOVE. When someone say TAKE CARE, it really means that you will stay in their heart till its last beat..

165. ..in life, there are lots of people watching our next move, desperately waiting for us to fail and even praying for us to give up.. but don't mind them, it just doubles the fun of living and surviving.. let's keep in mind that failures and problems are not things we should be scared of. they could lead to breakthroughs and great discoveries. see life as an adventure and enjoy every moment of it!

166. "there's nothing scarier than getting what you really really want because then, you'd have something really really wonderful to lose.."

167. Love isn't about attraction, not about infatuation, not about lust, not about gifts and the length of time you spent together.

bottom line?

there's no reason at all

true love is having to wake up each day feeling so deeply inlove and overwhelmingly happy whenever this person is around you without even knowing why.

making you forget the past.. cherish the present..

and wishing the future would be spending the entirety of your lives together..

168. Things happen because we choose it. There may be regrets, but blaming is not an option. We are where we are because we brought ourselves there. We get happy, we get sad. But most importantly - we Learn.

169. avoiding someone has only 2 reasons:

either you hate that person...

or

you're still in love with that person

169. "Ironically, women have wonderful instincts about things.. They can discover everything, except the obvious" - Oscar Wilde

170. "When a woman buys a pair of shoes, she goes to 8 shops to compare style, color, fit and price. In each shop, she'll probably try a dozen pairs - holding it, touching it, smelling it, wearing it, walking it - before she actually buys the shoes. She also usually brings a friend or friends, always conferring and asking for comments. But when it comes to love, a woman will love the first jerk that will make her blush."

171. "There will come a point in your life when you'll get tired of chasing everyone, trying to fix everything. It's not giving up, its just a realization that you don't need all those you went after, because what you need are those who stood by you even if you never needed them."

172. "Never ever play with other people's feelings.. the world holds millions of things you can play with. A person's emotion is definitely not one of them"

173. its difficult to turn your back to someone whom you really wanna be with; to let someone feel neglected when in fact important; to show someone that you don't mind when in fact you care a lot; to avoid someone when you wanna take a stolen glance; to treat someone as an ordinary being when in fact really special... too hard to be in the same place with the people you used to be with yet you don't have a chance to have a word with them.. & laugh when you wanna cry your heart out.. too hard..

174. "moving on?

that's very easy..

just close your eyes..


sleep..


..and wish not to wake up anymore..

175. what's the hardest part of separating? not the feeling of letting go. not the part of good bye.. but going through every damn day, wishing it never happened..

176. Love is like the rain. It gently pours but sometimes its raging fast. But why is the rain so special? Coz like love its something you can feel, but something you can't stop!

177. not everything is meant to be..

but everything is worth a try..

178. if you can't have the best of what you want, learn to make the best of what you have. "a vision without action is a daydream; an action without a vision is a nightmare." happy people are those who don't have many things in life but they don't know how to make the best of the few things they have..

179. The Hebrew says: "Be very careful if you make a woman cry because God counts her tears. Every tear a woman shed is equivalent of man's sacrifices in life. The woman came from a man's rib, not on his feet to be stepped on; not on his head to superior, but on his side to be equal. Under his arms to be protected and near his heart to be loved..

180. every girl thinks catching a guy's heart is a great accomplishment, actually, catching the guy's heart is the easy part.. keeping him faithful is the real accomplishment.

181. QUOTE: "if we're not meant to be... so what? make a mistake with me." :p

182. NEVER let someone hurt you twice. Giving him a second chance is exposing yourself to be hurt again. If he had done it once, it's bound to happen again. Why? Coz you gave him the idea that no matter how much he'll hurt you, you'd still accept him all over again, giving him the power to hurt you again. Once is enough to learn..

183. sooner or later, start taking yourself seriously. know when you need a break, know what to get worked up and about & what to get rid of. do something that makes you stronger & more complete. because it's never too late to have a life. & never too late to change one..

184. It's really hard to wait for the person in your life especially when the wrong ones are so yummy and hot! :p

185. its hard to LOVE someone who can never be yours. time would give you chances to talk, chances to be together, chances to share.. see how it hurts?! u only have chances ... just chances.. :(

186. The vow is simple, really.

Those who take it promise to stay together for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness & in health, to honor & to cherish, forsaking all others until death do us part.

Yes, the vow is simple.

Finding someone worthy of such a promise is the hard part.

187. When does being happy becomes scary?

When your happiness could mean a heartbreak for somebody else..

188. there two greatest days in your life..
the day you were born &
the day you discovered who you're born for..

189. Never explain yourself to anyone.

Bcoz..

The person who LIKES you doesn't need it..

&

The person who DISlikes you won't believe it.

190. people have different outlooks on love. but whatever those are, there's only a single truth behind everyone's heartache: 'Love hurts when God knows we deserve someone else..'

191. The father of a girl asked his daughter's boyfriend..

"what can you do for my daughter?"

"i would die for her!" the boyfriend answered.

"i don't like you" the dad replied

"why?!" said the boyfriend

the dad answered...

"i'm looking for someone who would live for her.. not someone who would just die & leave her alone"

192. Life is never without a problem, never without difficulty, never without hurtful moments, but never without good friends to lighten all the NEVERS!

193. nung nawala siya sa buhay ko, kala ko okay lang. kala ko isang tulugan lang mawawala na siya sa isip ko. pero mali yata ako.. kasi nun nawala siya, pagtulog ang nakalimutan ko.. tsk, tsk..

194. "sometimes you just have to put a period on something that has to end, and not just settle on a comma, you'll realize that it's nicer to see a complete sentence, rather than seeing a phrase that's completely hanging and doesn't even make any sense"

195. This must be the most difficult & painful situation any girl would be put in:

"I am just the girl he loves..

but not the girl he's committed to.."

196. All that a girl needs is a guy, just one guy,..

"who would be man enough to prove to her that not all men are the same."

197. if you have forgiven a CHEATING MAN a couple of times, they are more than likely going to CHEAT AGAIN. because they already know that if they plead enough, you will forgive them

198. "people say that bad memories cause the most pain, but actually, it's the good ones that drive us insane.."

199. A big jar full of water gets emptied by just a small hole..

Meaning?

A single pain could drain all the happiness of a loving heart.

200. "sometimes, we need to forget about the people from our past.. cause there must have been a good reason why they didn't make it to our future"