Kowts VI

251. Math tells us 3 of the saddest love stories..

TANGENT LINES who had one chance to meet and then parted forever;

PARALLEL LINES who were never meant to meet;

& ASYMPTOTES who can get closer and closer but will never be together..

252. Everyday is irreplaceable, so don't ruin yours by allowing the negative moods of others pull you into their frame of mind.

253. In the cruel world of love, i've learned that
PROMISES aren't CONTRACTS
kisses aren't INSURANCE
Sweet words aren't GUARANTEES
Big hugs aren't BONDS
& that nothings PERMANENT in this life..
One day he/she's MINE, the next day, he/she's GONE
LAST NIGHT he/she was SWEET,
the next morning, he/she's INSENSITIVE..
Loving someone is not always about fairytales and fantasies..
It's about TRUTH & REALITIES..

254. pretending to be happy when you're in pain is just an example of how strong you are as a person, still making that simple smile when every part of you dies..

255. Life is a constant change.
Love is the greatest surprise.
Friendship is your best defense.
Maturity comes with responsibilities.
& death is just around the corner.
So expect little, assume nothing. Sometimes be selfish, learn from your mistakes, listen to your heart. Take care of your friends, treasure your family, achieve your goals. Cry because of laughter, laugh because of pain, eat your pride & throw up all the anguish in you. & always remember that LIFE is the best gift coz not everyone gets the chance to have it..

256. Mind Teaser:
Don't ever let yourself get so busy that you miss those little but important extras in life..

- the beauty of a day

- the smile of a friend

- the serenity of a quiet moment alone.

For it is often life's smallest pleasures & gentlest joys that make the biggest & most lasting difference.

257. you fail to understand a few things.

you even at times close your mind from matters you never want to face.

you get depressed.

you mess up when you can't manage everything coming by.

you cry when you can't help yourself anymore,

you mourn,

you become sad.

you try to transform your emotions into something else, just to forget.

you lie.

you make mistakes.

you get jealous & upset.

you feel down like a toy being dumped.

your hurt.

but you still choose to exist.

just because YOU LOVE..

258. "wag mong bitiwan ang bagay na hindi mo kayang makitang hinahawakan ng iba.."

napaka.simple diba?

259. On holding on:
have you ever wondered why even if someone is too numb to feel you, or insensitive to notice you, you still choose to stay?

It's because beyond what others see in that persn, you feel a tiny chance that maybe, just maybe if you hold on a little bit tighter, he/she will learn to value you..

260. There are time when i just couldn't help but wonder WHY TRUST is just too hard to give while jealousy is too easy to feel..

261. a girl & a boy were crossing a narrow bridge..

the boy holds the girl's hand..

the girl said, "No. i'll hold your hand.."

the boy asked, "what's the difference?"

the girl said, "if you hold my hand, you might let go. but if hold your hand, i'll never let you go.."

262. "If Love can only be infused thru IV, it will be the fluid of choice for majority of cardiac diseases,,"

263. You yearn for someone not because you want to be complete. but because you want to add more color into your life. That person must not necessarily break thru your busy sched. That person must inspire you to manage your time well instead. You see, its not a matter of distance & time. It's more like friendship on a higher level. Its smiling alone every once in a while, knowing that somehow, someone smiles at the thought of you..

264. "the mind grows by taking in, but the heart grows by giving out."

"a crisis doesn't break a person; it reveals what a person is made of."

265. "Life is never about the people who act true to my face. It is always about the people who remain true behind my back."

266. Sometimes if a string gets too tangled and messed up to solve. Its better to cut it out to start a new one and save the untangled part.

267. never let anyone make you feel that you don't deserve what you want. you are worthy of your happiness. what they say doesn't change anything. it doesn't change you, unless you let it.

268. Some lessons are best learned thru pain, sometimes our visions clear only after our eyes are washed with tears. Sometimes we have to be broken so we can be whole again. If God meant the day to be perfect, He would not have invented tomorrow. So don't worry if today wasn't perfect coz you still have tomorrow. And if there's anything in your heart that feels right, go after it no matter what it takes..

269. do you know?

that most people presume that the summation of all the causes of hurt, pain and hatred in one word is just..

EXPECTATIONS.

270. Loving someone is not an assurance they'll love you back. Don't expect love to grow in their hearts. If it doesn't, be contented that it grew in yours.

271. "never think that you are not good enough for anyone; always ask yourself if they are good enough for you.."

272. Be realistic.

If the person you love doesn't love you, then pray for someone who will. Don't rush things as they say:

The best part of life is having someone "worth waiting for"

273. There are people who keep what they feel. They still smile even though it hurts. They pretend to be fine even if they're not. They seem to be strong even if inside they are melting. Know what's hard to say at this moment? Sometimes, we are one of them.

274. heartbreak is an odd kind of pain, coz you're not dying, you're not even sick; all intents & purposes, you're perfectly fine yet inside, where your heart used to be, you hurt so much that you can't breathe, you can't sleep & you can't stop the tears from falling; you may eat too much, you may not eat at all; non-smokers light up, nondrinkers find a bar; a great equalizer, coz it can bring even the strongest man to his knees..

275. in love, you have to expect absence at some point, but that doesn't mean an end. all you have to do is to wait for the time, give the person space. because true love is proved when a person has seen the best people in the world, but still turns back to where you are, reaches for your hand, & chooses you above the world's best..

276. "I TRIED..." - the sweetest thing you could ever say for a failed relationship. May be the shortest but it compliments everything..

277. Its harmless to be with a person who has that special spark for you, laughs around with you, flirts a little with you. After all there's no commitment involved, it's actually fun, if fun is really all your after. But believe me; it gets confusing in the long run & you just sit in a corner wondering.. IS THIS ALL?

278. you can never teach a guy to love a girl the way she wants to be loved. you have to wait for him to do it in his own way, in his own time. that's the saddest part of being a girl. BUT you can never teach a girl to love the guy back the she did before if she already grew tired and fed up, understanding and waiting to be appreciated and love the way she deserves to be loved. that's the saddest part of being an insensitive man.

279. i just want that one boy who i could be myself around, the reason why i smile is because he put it there, and the reason why i'm done looking for the right one is because i would have him right infront of me.

280. "i'd rather be the pain that you remember, rather than the love that you forget.." :(

281. If you can't get someone off your mind, it's maybe because he/she is supposed to be there. Remember, the mind can recognize what the heart's trying to deny.

282. Fall in love? That's a hard thing to do. I'd rather have beer, it makes you warm inside, much like love. Then when you had too much to drink, you fall hard. Same thing. But when you have too much to love and get hurt, it takes so long to recover while with beer, just sleep then it's over..

283. nakahanap na ako ng bago..
magkamukha nga kayo eh.
mas malambing siya kesa sayo..
mas mabait at di ako pinapaiyak..
kaso alam mo?
may prublema nga lang,
mas mahal pa rin kita.. :(

284. PAIN is the mentor..
REALIZATION is the lesson..
but how can it be applied,
WHEN YOU STILL LOVE THE PERSON?

285. Ponder on this:
sometimes its not LOVE..
sometimes you've just become so attached..
that you've developed a need for that person..

just a need..
and not LOVE

286. i have come to realize that his just a guy that i like and i truly love.
but his not mine. and i don't need to do things to make him love me.
coz if he wanted to..
HE WOULD..

287. have you ever noticed that the more special you treat someone, the more that someone takes you for granted.. know why? coz they think.. . YOU WON'T EVER CHANGE..

288. suicide is the ultimate form of selfishness. it's unlikely that anyone cowardly enought to take his own life and be brave enough to watch his own death.

289. moving on is not about "never looking back". its about taking a glance at yesterday and noticing how much you've grown since then..

290. when you have found the reason to walk away, never look back. just keep on walking, even if the destination is unclear. it will take a lot of courage for every step you make, but it will save some pride and honor for yourself. its better to get lost moving on, than being stranded and broken after all..

291. People said I've changed so much,.. well here's the honest truth; I grew up.
I stopped letting people push me around,
I learned that you can't always be happy;
I accepted reality.

292. "you weren't going to let go. i could see that. i didn't want to do it - it felt like it would kill me to do it - but i knew that if i couldn't convince you that i didn't love you anymore, it would just take you that much longer to get on with your life. i hoped that, if you thought i'd moved on, so would you." - Edward Cullen

293. one very hard thing in this life is when you know inside your heart that you love that person but you run out of reasons to fight for what you feel. :(

294. probably the greatest torture you could ever do to your heart is to let somebody go... at the tiome you're loving that person most.. *ouch*

295. pull your heart out of its comfort zone. you'd never learn how to love unless you'd learn how to get hurt.

296. ang sakit pag ang mahal mo ay may kasamang iba. nasasaktan ka dahil lagi silang magkakasama. pero di mo alam, pag ikay'y nakatalikod, nakatingin siya sayo at sasabihing.. "sana ikaw ang kasama ko.."

297. if i love you this much, and i'm not the one for you..
then the one for you will be everything i am
...and everything i'm not.

298. i wish i could shout out all the questions in my mind.
but something's stopping me..
it's the feart of breaking my heart upon hearing the answers..

299. confronted with the truth we can respond two ways;
we can become angry and defensive
OR
we can be humbly and broken..

300. I was never one to patiently pick up broken fragments and glue them together again and tell myself that the mended whole was as good as new. What is broken is broken - and I'd rather remember it as it was at its best than mend it and see the broken pieces as i lived. - Margaret Mitchell