Kowt VII

301. the hardest part about walking away from the one you love.. is the part that you have to realize that he/she will never ever run after you..

302. they say if love becomes painful, its time to let go and save yourself.. but just keep in mind, if love is true, pain is never a reason to let go..

303. how do you see that someone special is "the one"?
.. pretty much like finding the end of a roll of scotch tape. .you don't need to see, you just feel it.. :)

304. happiness can't be found when you seek it for yourself..
but when you give it to others, it will find its way to back to you.
that's the mystery of happiness, it grows when SHARED.. :)

305. Barry Manilow was wrong when he said..

'we had the right love at the wrong time.."

It is simply an excuse for not making better decisions while in love. It's an excuse in not standing up for what you feel and most of all, it's an excuse for not being brave enough to stand by your love..

306. "Staying with someone you really love even if you know it's better letting go is like standing under the rain..

It feels good but you know it's gonna make you sick..

307. Sometimes..
you just have to PRETEND that you're happy.
just to stop EVERYONE.. from asking you what the hell happened..

308. Things i've just learned..
..."in this world, its hard to tell who's true and who's not; people may be good at the beginning and cruel in the end; if you are too trusting. they'll take advantage of you; if they know you're weak, they'll hurt you; after loving them, they'll leave you.

..never allow somebody to be your priority when in fact you're just her/his option..
Sometimes, it just feels good to fall in love but most of the times, it hurts,,

309. "bitterness doesn't mean you hate falling in love, it's just being wise and careful so that your heart won't be used and torn apart again.."

310. everyday i wish for someone to love me and who will love me in return.. today, i think i;m gonna wish something else.. the maturity to realize that if it wouldn't come,.. i would still be fine.. :)

311. just when you've moved on and thought you've finally gone far enough, something brings you to a touchstone. and that's when you realize, love has a habit of coming back..

312. just a thought:
"why ruin the perfectly-arranged petals of a beautiful flower when you know from the start that he/she loves you not"

313. Love is like a lost object. If you search too hard, you won't find it.
But if you just forget about it momentarily,...
It will show up in the most unexpected way.. :)

314. How would you know if you're happy?

It's when you're alone yet you don't feel lonely or incomplete. Its when everything is wrong yet you find simple reasons to smile. Its when you wake up every morning without any regret from yesterday.

315. Women are like police. They can have all the evidences in the world, but they still want the confession - Chris Rock

316. What could be nicer than seeing your loved one smile at you so sweetly for no reason? What could be more flattering than hearing him/her say you look good in whatever you wear? What could be more heartwarming than sharing with him/her an umbrella under the cold rain?
...It's to hear him/her say, "I've fallen in love with you more than I planned & I know for sure, there's no way I'll ever let you go.."

317. Feelings are made to be expressed, its not meant to be helpless nor kept. Don't be a loser fighting, never make regrets for yourself to suffer. Coz you know what? IN SILENCE, it hurts more..

318. "anyone can make you happy by doing something special.. BUT only someone special can you happy without doing anything.."

319. touching moments at bikini bottom..
Spongebob: "what do you usually do when i'm gone?"
Patrick: "wait for you to come back."

320. "sometimes, someone can mean so much to you that even the truth can't change your mind."

321. Love is..
when my granny had arthritis, and couldn't paint her nails.. my grandpa did it for her. even though he had arthritis too.. :)

322. Question: "can LOVE really last a LIFETIME?"
Answer: scientist found out that romantic loves involves chemical changes in the brain that last 12-18months. after that, you and your partner are on your own..

-love can absolutely last for a lifetime as desired to be maintained. meaning, its both your choice,,
Bottomline: IT WILL LAST, if you know how to commit.

323. "The most hurtful kind of lies are the ones delivered by the people you care about the most. It makes you doubt everything you know and makes you wonder why you care so much and worst of all, it puts you in the position of deciding whether to tell them you know they're lying or act like you're too dull to even know the difference. Keep this in mind the next time you lie to someone who cares about you, because more often than not, they know and it hurts a lot." - Grey's Anatomy

324. we also have the science to tell us exemplary love stories..
Photosynthesis - the relationship of the sun and the leaves. where you meet someone who gives you all his love and never expects anything in return.

Magnetism - where you meet your opposite, just the right one for you, and never got separated since then..

and the Law of Gravity - where you're destined to fall and ultimately meet the one you truly deserved without pitstops..

325. in the chase between cat & mouse, the mouse mostly wins. this is because the cat is running for its food & the mouse for its life...PURPOSE is most important than NEED.

326. Do not live by the standards of this world nor by the expectations of other people. Remember: A person who follows the crowd usually gets lost in it.. Be different! ;)

327. "never make the one you love feel alone.. especially when you're there." -Nicolas Sparks

328. "there is no remedy for love but to love more.." - Thoreau

329. "i've learn not to worry about love; but to honor its coming with all my heart.." - Alice Walker

330. when you love, it doesn't matter how many times you cried, how many words you've heard, but its how much you care and how long you're willing to sacrifice.. even if it means, taking away your own happiness..

331. fixing someone's broken heart is much more like treating a sickness, no matter how hard you try, if you're not the right medicine, you can never cure the pain!

332. people always think that the most painful thing is losing the one you love in your life.. the truth is, the most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much - forgetting that you are special too..

333. "Learn. But always learn with other people by your side. Don't be alone in the search because if you take a wrong step, you'll have no one there to help put you right" - Paolo Coelho

334. A love should not be just words & talk;
it must be true love, which shows itself in action.
Relationships take time & effort, and the best way to spell love is TIME..

Attention says: i value you enough to give you my most precious asset.. my time.

Whenever you give your time, you are making a sacrifice & sacrifice is the essence of love. You can give without loving, but you cannot love without giving..

335. the face can speak a thousand emotions but it can easily mask what the heart truly feels. Don't be fooled. for the happiest face maybe masking the most hurting heart..


336. I hate insomnia, not because it doesn’t put me into sleep despite the fact that I’m tired, but because it puts me into a state of reminiscing memories I know I couldn’t bring back. I wish I could drive insomnia away. Not so I can dream well, but to save my pillow from being drowned by my tears. :(

337. If people have to leave us in one way or another, it would be best if they'll do it 100% lie-free and just slap the truth in our faces. We all do deserve something better than just lame excuses because lies in all sort do make us appear stupid.

338. When someone breaks your heart, you turn into a small ball of self-pity. You lie on bed, you hug your knees and keep them close like a fetus. Freud said: "It's human instinct to go back to the womb where we can feel safe."

339. No one is born happy, but all of us are born with the ability to create happiness. Just remember, happiness is a state of mind and it depends on ones attitude towards life, not on what one has.

340. There were times I love to hate you. And then I love to love you. It's like I want to throw you off a cliff, then rush to the bottom to catch you.

341. Forgive my mind for it can't forget how life began the day we met. Forgive my soul for it sees that we're really meant to be. Forgive this feeling I just can't kill and forgive my heart, it loves you still.

342. If you want someone...
don't expect that person to just fly to you. You should put a little effort and patience into winning that person.
If it doesn't work, well, you just have to do it the hard way..
There are words such as:
KIDNAP, RAPE, BLACKMAIL, TORTURE.
Be creative!

343. each of us represents a star in the sky...
sometimes we shine with the rest, sometimes we twinkle alone, & sometimes, we fall and make someone's dreams come true.. :)

344. Intelligence can bring you to success. But its your attitude that keeps you there.
Remember: "Grades don't define a person. ATTITUDE does."

345. when you make others live, learn, laugh & love, you do the same for yourself..for what you get out of life comes from what you put in it..

346. Learn to love with all your heart and accept the unlovable side of others for anyone can love a rose. but only a great heart can include the thorns..

347. "being clever is when you believe only half of what you hear.. and being brilliant is when you know which half to believe..

348. We are capable of making ourselves happy but happiness is somewhat different when someone else does it for us. .. it's much sweeter!:)

349. you really don't have to be nice always..sometimes you have to show your bad side ,..so that you can sort out who can accept you at your worst mood..

350. more often than not, a relationship sucks. it could crush you, it might even kill you..
..so would you go for Scofield's advice: "stay free. stay out. stay alive."
or would you go for Dr. House's words of wisdom: "if i do this surgery, you might die. but don't you think being normal is worth the risk?"