Thursday, May 7, 2009

Kowts XXIII

601. "tears are often the telescope of our soul by which men see far into heaven. ." -Henry Ward Beecher


602. Before you say “I can’t”, make sure you’ve tried. Before you let doubts stop you, confront them with facts. Before fear holds you back, go forward with faith. Before you believe others are better, show them what a winner you are. Before you go looking for happiness, make your own wherever you are.
603. “Sometimes you got to quit thinking so much. If it feels right, it probably is, so just go with it.”
604. Love is not always a fairytale. There are people who give so much love to those who don’t love them back. There are some people who feel so loved and find out in the end they are fooled. There are some who’s into mutual love but can’t call as there partner as their own ‘coz someone already holds the title. There are some who gave so much love but the others won’t believe ‘coz they always consider your past. There are some who received so much love but can’t seem to move on from the previous relationship or the others just want to play game and choose their playmate. Now which story is yours?
605. How can we love people who don’t seem to make things worth at all? Why do we become so numb caring for people whom at times don’t even think of us in a day or two? Why do we let ourselves hurt and continue hoping for a love that makes us defenseless? And why do we prioritize these people who only choose us as options? Are these the reasons why sometimes in love we end up losing ourselves? Sad but true…
606. "i don't need someone whose perfect. all i need is someone doing nothing and yet, keeps me falling.."

607. "Sometimes you'll never really know the true value of a moment until it becomes a memory."

608. Words from Spongebob: "Let go of what kills you. . and hold on to what keeps you breathing.."
609. "keep in mind that there will always be reasons to become sad but there will never be reasons to stay sad."
610. When it comes to men who are romantically interested in you, it's really simple. Just ignore everything they say and only pay attention to what they do.
611. "every good girl is looking for a bad boy who can spice up her life.
but then again,
every bad boy is just looking for a good girl who can change his world."
612. funny how you run after happiness & end up wounded.
ironically speaking, life has no direction since then.. it was you who made a puzzle and it you who made you
613. Notice how God opens millions of flowers everyday without forcing the buds; as if reminding us not to force anything, for everything happens perfectly in God's time.
614. "love is unexplainable, you will never know how risky it is.
but what are the odds of taking a risk in a relationship anyway?
taking a great risk means having a great love story & a great love story doesn't necessarily have a happy ending. but it definitely has a heart touching journey.."
615. is it really that hard to let go of someone?
or is it just really hard because you still hope there's a chance?

616. it is funny how i never even shared my smile to the guy who was willing to carve the whole world just for me, yet i fell for someone who doesn't even bother to reach for the falling star . .


617. If you really love a person,
just SHOW it

it will be sweeter than TELLING it but
if you don't love that person anymore,
just TELL it
it will be better than SHOWING it. . .

618. funny that one moment, both of you were inseparable. . and now, both of you are just two people trying to forget each other. . :(


619. fallin' in love is like crossin' the street. there's a traffic light that tells you when to go, when to look and when to stop.. tell me, would i be crossing the red light if a FALL in LOVE with YOU?

620. "minsan trip kitang inisin, asarin, pikunin.. tapos ako tatawa lang.. :p
wag ka mag.alala, paraan ko lang yun para sabihin na, 'ang saya ko kasi anjan ka..'" ^^,

621. The hardest part in staying away from the one you love who can't love you back, is the painful reality that. . that person will never chase you. .

622. a girl/guy will only turn her back once you push her/him away so hard. but be shure this is what you want. because once you turn her/his back - she/he is NEVER coming back..

623. you know why some people don't believe in second chance? it's not because they don't know how to forgive.. but second chance might also mean, feeling the same excruciating pain for the second time around.


624. girl: 'i guess he doesn't really love me & i guess he never did. i waited in the airport for an hour for him to stop my flight, but he never came.'

boy: 'i guess she doesn't reallt love me & i guess she never did. i waited outside her gate because i was confident she would come back, but she never came..'


625. You know it's true love when you have been saying goodbye for so long & yet, you still couldn't leave.


626. they say that a second chance might mean feeling the same excruciating feeling all over again.. but if you really love that person, you would be willing to feel that pain all over again, . . just to have him/her back


627. "pwedeng lahat ng taong darating sayo marunong umunawa, magpahalaga at matutunan kang mahalin. sa mga yun, piliin mo yung hindi marunong magsawa, kasi lahat marunong magmahal pero hindi lahat nagtatagal"

628. "nung iniwan mo ako, pinilit kung kalimutan ka pero kapag nag.iisa ako, ikaw pa din ang nasa isip ko . nagkulang ba ako para iwan mo? o napasobra pa ang pagmamahal ko para pagsawaan mo?" :(

629. you know its true love when you have been saying good bye for so long and yet, you still couldn't leave..

630. "di ko sinasadyang mapalapit sayo. nagising na akong di ko na kayang wala ka. hindi ko alam kung bakit. basta ang alam ko, parte ka na ng buhay ko, kapag wala ka... kulang ako"

631. i was thinking just now about the kind of person i want to be with for the rest of my. i want someone who can hear me out despite my silence, who can see me beyond all those masks of smiles and laughter and who would understand me at my worst. someone who would make me feel that i'm too special and therefore worthy to be loved. and lastly, i want someone who won't get tired of showing me that i am the very reason why he exist.. :)

632. tears are one of the most meaningful liquids. wanna know why? it is because out of the many liquids in the world, only tears can explain the real meaning of pain..

633. why do tears came rushing when you are hurting so much? it is because its the only way how your eyes speak when your mouth can't explain how things made your heart broken.. :(

634. it's not about having a perfect relationship but its finding someone who matches you and will go thru everything without giving up..

635. "Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep on moving." - Albert Einstein

636. "Feeling are also living things, they live inside the heart of a person, and like other living things, they also die in different reasons.."

637. "Humans get depressed over things they cannot handle because they are too weak to accept that it's time to move on."

638. "you cannot protect two things at the same time.. if you don't make a decision, you will lose both.. " :(

639. You have to learn that sometimes it isn't love.
It's just a feeling.
A sudden feeling, and you just overreacted..

640. "my life's worst scenario"
..it's when people assume that they know me even without trying to get to know me & they judge me from my actions without knowing the reason behind it..

641. if you have a chance to seize a moment that you know will be memorable, grab it.. always think that "NEXT TIME" may never come..

642. "life is what happens to you, while you are busy making other plans" - John Lennon

643. For whatever choices you are about to make in this life time, just one thing: let it come from your heart.. nothing beats that one..

644. It is so damn hard to deal with emotions when I want to touch someone but I can’t. There’s nothing I can do about it. No matter how hard I try to distract myself. No matter how I try to smile and laugh it out it still comes to that point where I find myself alone even in a happy crowd. Hopelessly missing that one person I have been wanting so much.

645. What is good about being emotional? It is accepting my own weakness and stop fooling myself pretending that I am strong knowing deep inside, I am bleeding.

646. Sometimes, it is better to keep silent than to tell others what you feel because it will only hurt you when you know they can hear you but they can’t understand.

647. Don’t exhaust your heart trying to look for the one you think you deserve. Instead, you should save the best part of you for the person who deserves you, someone who came the time you didn’t search.

648. You can’t forget a person you love so much no matter how much you try to do it. It is impossible unless you learn to love somebody else.

649. What could be nicer than seeing your loved one smile at you so sweetly for no reason? What could be more flattering than hearing that someone says you look good in whatever you wear? What could be more heartwarming that sharing with that someone an umbrella under the cold rain? It is to hear that someone say, “I have fallen in love with you more that I planned to and now I know for sure that there’s no way I will ever let you go.”

650. It is a lie to say you have let go of the past. Nobody let go of memories. Each tear is an unforgettable memory. Each smile is an undeniable mark. Each heartbeat is an unerasable soar because really, there is no such thing as forgetting only accepting and changing.

Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Kowts XXII

551. "Consider the postage stamp: its usefulness consists in the ability to stick to one thing till it gets there." - Josh Billings

552. "When we can't piece together the puzzle of our own lives, remember the best view of a puzzle is from above. Let Him (God) help put you together." - Amethyst S.

553. "i do believe that simple things really matter. because even a simple misunderstanding could ruin 'EVERYTHING'" - reality check!

554. There's no substitute of a friend..

None. No one.. Nothing..

Not even a chocolate.
Will a chocolate answer the phone at 3 AM? Of course not. Only a friend can listen..
Only a friend can understand.

And no matter how you crave for chocolates in times of depression, a real friend is still the sweetest sugar-coated thing ever existed that could cheer you up..

Thanks for being one.. No matter how much I love chocolates, I still love you more!

555. "My life.. showed how a woman of very ordinary ability has been led by God in strange and unaccustomed paths to do in his service what he has done in her. And if I could tell you all, you would see how God has done all, and I nothing. I have worked hard, very hard, that is all; and I have never refused God anything." - Florence Nightingale, Founder of Modern Nursing

556. "the best thing you can do for someone is to just exist - to be there when they suddenly realize that they need you right then."

557. .. A true person is like the best books, sometimes the cover may not be so elegant but the contents are like bars of gold that you can treasure for a lifetime

558. "Failure is the greatest opportunity I have to know who I really am." - John Killinger

559. Sharing thoughts: give thousand chances to your enemy to become your friend, but never give a single chance to your friend to become your enemy.

560. "Expectation is a powerful attractive force, because it draws things to you." - The Secret

561. it's better for a princess like us to sleep a hundred years and be kissed and awaken by the right prince than to stay awake and be kissed a hundred times by the wrong frog..

562. Nobody deserves your tears, but whoever deserves them will not make you cry..

563. "you can't make people love you. all you can do is show them who you are and what you feel... & it's up to them to realize your worth.."

564. Life is a continuous challenge, a constant struggle from womb to tomb.
We are not made rich by what is in our pockets, but by what is in our Hearts. :)

565. Take chances, take a lot of them. Because honestly, no matter where you end up and with whom, it always ends up just the way it should be. Your mistakes make you who you are. You learn to grown with each choice you make. Everything is worth it. Say how you feel always. Be you, and be okay with it.

566. "nobody wants to take the pictures of the fish that jumps into the boat!"

567. it's sweet when someone remembers every little detail about you, not because you keep reminding him or her.. but because she/he tells you, "i like you, that's why i pay attention."

568. Don't settle for someone who only buys you coffee.

Go for someone who makes you one.

EFFORT counts a lot! =)

569. "The chief reason for drinking is the desire to behave in a certain way and be able to blame it on alcohol." - The Neurotics Book

570. "your worth as a drug is counted not with your half life stay, not with the intended therapeutic effects nor the unintended adverse effects, not with the rate of absorption until excretion BUT the way how you improved somebody's life even if you are unwillingly metabolized and excreted in the end.."


...Lesson in life inspired by pharmacology. ^^,

571. when you feel like quitting, ask this question.. "did God ever stop doing good things in my life?" if not, why give up?..

572. "If the relationship does not make you a better person, then you are with the wrong one."

573. We are not supposed to be perfect, cause if we are, then they should have not invented pencils with erasers.

574. by the time you realize how important a person is in your life - you're already on a slump & banging your head on a wall for not realizing soon enough..

575. "Every man needs a woman when his life is mess.. Because the queen protects the king, just like in a game of chess."

576. God has given us 2 gifts:

one is choice and another is chance. choice is to select a good one and chance to have the best one
577. "As much as you want to plan your life. it has a way of surprising you with unexpected things that will make you happier than you originally planned."

578. "While I'm busy looking up the balloon, I've realized that there's an ice cream melting on my hand." - Make sense? Don' take things for granted..

579. "Moving on is a sweet process of proving to others especially yourself that you're off better without that person."

580. "the time is always right to do what is right."

581. "If you come across something good, you should hold and never let it go. Life offers you a thousand chances. All you have to do is take one."

582. it's impossible to find someone who will never hurt you. so do yourself a favor, get the next best thing... find someone who's worth the TORTURE..

583. "No one is stupid.. Life teaches everyone-however long that may take." - Paolo Coelho, Warrior of the Light

584. Many times, the things we complain about are the good things.
We grumble about having too much work while others don't even have.
We complain waking up early in the morning while others don't even have a reason to live.
We grouse about gaining weight while others don't even have food on their tables.
Everyday, God fills our lives with so much goodness. All we need to do is open our eyes and give thanks for each of them.

585. "When one door closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us." - Helen Keller

586. "if everybody deserves a second chance, would it mean we also have this freedom to waste the first one?"

587. "kahit ilang milyong quotes at jokes ang ipadala at ipatama mo sa taong gusto mo, kung hindi ka niya gusto, hindi ka niya itetext!"

588. Everyday is a challenge for us. It is not about being wealth, being popular nor being perfect, but being genuine, being humble, being strong & being able to share ourselves with others. Difficult but with faith and wisdom, we could all challenge ourselves to be better persons.

589. "The best thing you can do for someone is to just exist - to be there when they suddenly realize that they need you right then.."

590. "Don't look for things or people that aren't there. Just always be thankful for what you have; Because the more you look for something not with you, the more you find something wrong with what you have.."

591. When the last tree is cut. the last fish is caught. and the last river is polluted - only then will man realize that he cannot eat his money

592. the loud voice of a man really shocks & threatens a woman.. but the silence of a woman tremendously shakes the consciousness of a man

593. "love is unexplainable, you will never know how risky it is. but what are the odds of taking a risk in a relationship anyway? taking a great risk means having a great love story & a great love story doesn't necessarily have a happy ending but definitely has a heart touching journey.."

594. i used to believe i'd find happiness by wishing on stars that fall on my way. then i met you and i learned that real stars don't just fall and fade - they stay,,

595. If people love you, be thankful that you're one of the few whom certain people chose to show their emotions to. Love does not demand to be loved back but it doesn't mean it exists to be taken for granted. If you can't return the love you're given, don't let it linger to grow alone. If you don't want it, refuse kindly. Love may not demand but it also deserves a heart that will better understand.

596. A nice thought: You've got to accept a little sorrow in life. You'll never really know what happiness is, unless you have something to compare it to..

597. Life has great options,you don't always have to pick what seems best...sometimes,the best & the perfect aren't always what makes you happy...you may have chosen what seems to be a wrong decisi0n or caught in a not so good situation but at times,it is through them that our lives become better.

598. Once there was a composer who usually does & saves his composition on a laptop 1 day,a friend came & ask to use the laptop, unfortunately his friend broke down the unit felt sorry for all his compositions might be lost, but he said boastfully, "don't worry, I've got back-ups" he tried to open his back-up files, but an error occurred "the disk is n0t formatted,formatting will lost all saved data, format anyway?" moral: "back-ups doesn't always work the same way, like in a relationship, if you really love someone,love only her without reservation for she's vulnerable. Care for her, value her 'coz when she's gone, you might lost her forever & any back-ups you have can't replace her worth in any sense."

599. Some people are sweet at first, always has time for you at first, serious at first, but why do people change after you love them so much? Maybe all romantic moment only happens at first and never last.. :(

600. When a song ends, you could just repeat it everytime you like. When the movie ends, you can just wait after the trailers to start it again. When the rain ends, sure it'll come back soon but when your relationship ended with the one you loved, you don't even know if you can rewind it, repeat it or hope for it to come back. There's nothing in this world that is stronger than love..

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Kowts XXI

501. Never count your friends on a sunny day when the sky is blue and laughter is abundant. Instead, wait for a storm when the clouds are dark and smiles are scarce. When someone stands beside you and lifts your spirit to the sky, then you'll know who deserves to be called a FRIEND!

502. a review of the 3 handwritten phrases found on the wall
>the good you do today, people will forget tomorrow, do good anyway
>give the world the best you have, and it may not be enough; give your best anyway
>for you see in the final analysis, it's between you and GOD. it was never between you and them anyway..

503. World's most beautiful phrase: "....BUT, I LOVE YOU."
World's most painful phrase: "I LOVE YOU, BUT..."

-makes sense ;)

504. Theory: You cannot hurt someone who feels nothing special for you.
Vice versa: You cannot be hurt by anyone unless that person is special for you

505. Six pieces of advice:
-closest to us is not family but death
-farthest from us is not the moon or starts, but time passed
-biggest is not the mountain or sun, but our lust/desire
-heaviest weight is not the elephant of iron, but responsibility
-lightest is neither wind nor feathers, but praying or delaying it
-sharpest is neither knife nor sword, but our tongue

506. "You can go your whole life collecting days, and none will outweigh the one you wish you had back." - Mitch Alboom, For One More Day

507. Bakit pagkaibigan walang petsa kung kelan naging kayo? Walang anniversaries na cncelebrate? Walang commitment with each other? Pero isa lang maganda dun na kahit magkaaway kayo walang break-up..

508. "Let us strive to improve ourselves, for we cannot remain stationary; one either progresses or retrogrades.." - Mm. Du Deffand

509. When you love someone, thinking about them is just like breathing.. -- you do it without thinking, and you do it all the time

510. Faith teaches us to believe no matter what situation we're having right now..
Hold on, be strong, don't give up..
God works in ways we cannot see..

511. "Weakness of attitude becomes weakness of character." - Albert Einstein

512. You should never be tired of what life brings you & if you feel like falling down, I'll always be here for you. I may not be there personally, but hey, "my prayers are much powerful than me"

513. "Have you ever had the feeling that you were too pressured to choose from something you're sure of and from something you're happy with?.. It's like you don't know if you're brave enough to take the risk of letting go of everything you held on to before.. Life is totally twisted, things change and crap happens.. So, know what you really want and go for it.. Choose what makes you happy today or die in sadness tomorrow.."

514. Our hearts have 3 poisons: GREED, ANGER & FEAR.
But by giving, we heal greed;
With compassion, we appease anger;
& with faith, we overcome fear..

515. Freedom is something everyone wants to have at some point in time.. but then, we can't remain free always because one day, we'll realize to be with someone is much better than freedom itself!

516. They say expecting is one way of hurting yourself.. but .. What If you have the reason to expect? "expecting doesn't hurt you, assuming does.."

517. Minsan kahit may mahal ka na di maiwasang mahulog ka sa iba, pero pag dumating ang time na pipiliin ka nila, piliin mo kung kanino ka masaya.. may masaktan ka mang isa at least, nagpakatotoo ka!

518. our life is surrounded by people who judge us in and out. they can make or break us, but the key there is: "Live your own, and never mind them.."

519. God placed different people in our lives for a reason..
-some to challenge us
-some to inspire us
-some to stretch us
-some to encourage us
& some more for other good reasons
... But don't forget that you also play a unique role in someone else's life. So be happy whatever you're doing. No matte how small or how difficult YOUR task is, only YOU can do it! & only God knows how far your influence can go

520. Wanna know how weird Love in this universe is?
..love is like the star, she stays with the moon even if she know she's not the only one.
..love is like the moon, who patiently follows his sun.
..love is like the sun, who gives life for the planet she can't even touch.
..love is like the planet, who contents himself by just viewing the star from afar.

521. Half the trouble of this life can be traced by saying "Yes" too quick & not saying "No" soon enough.

522. You might not have a second chance, so spill it out and embrace the outcome.

523. Juliet wasn't Romeo's first love. It was a girl named Rosaline.. he adored her so much but fell instantly with Juliet - that's how uncertain love is,.. The person who we thought are meant for us were really just instruments to find the ones destined for us..

524. ang puso ko parang apartment, madami ng tumira pero umaalis din pag nagsawa na.. ngayong dumating ka, itatanong ko lang sana, dito ka na ba titira? o mangungupahan ka lang din tulad nila?

525. an old man was once asked: 'which is important, to be loved or to love someone?' the old man replied: 'which is more important to the bird, the left wing or the right wing?'

526. "the measure of a matured person is not how well they prepare for everything to go right but on how they stand up and move on after everything goes wrong"

527. "Experience is not the best teacher; it is reflecting on the experiences that teaches you."

528. "ang mata ay nasa harapan upang makita ang dadaanan, hindi para iyakan ang nagdaan."

529. They say expecting is one way of hurting yourself. but.. What if you have the reson to expect? .."expecting doesn't hurt you, assuming does."

530. "Mahirap pumapel sa buhay ng tao. Lalo na kung hindi ikaw ang bida sa script na pinili niya." - Bob Ong

531. there are some things in life that are just not worth rushin'.. especially something that you wish would last a lifetime.. ^^,

532. ..don't ever try to understand everythin; some things will just never make sense.
..don't ever be reluctant to show your feelings; when your happy, give into it, when you're not, live with it.
..don't ever be afraid to try to make things better; you might be surprised to see the results.
..don't ever taked the weight of the world on your shoulders.
..don't ever feel threatened by the future; take life one day at a time.
..don't ever feel guilty about the past; what is done is done & learn from any mistakes you might have made. live light.

533. i believe that simple things mean a lot. why? a simple lie ruins things yet a simple sorry patches it up. a simple yes can mean i love you but a simple no can mean good bye.

534. "you can hardly determine what is fake and true. but sometimes, fake gives more happiness to you, while the truth gives nothing but it just hurts you.

535. it doesn't matter how fast you're GOING.. as long as you are MOVING..

536. no one ever gets tired of loving. but everyone gets tired of waiting, assuming, hearing lies, saying sorry and hurting.

537. we always look at our scars as ugly marks.. but sometimes, let's think of them as nice things, as symbols that something painful in the past had been healed.

538. "Women usually love what they buy, yet hate two-thirds of what is in their closets." - The Neurotic's Notebook

539. There's nothing wrong in being bitter.. remember, medicines usually taste bitter but it makes you well..

540. When a man & a woman have feelings for each other, it doesn't necessarily need to have a formal relationship as boyfriend & girlfriend..while both are still busy with their personally lives, it's possible that they could make each other as an inspiration..

NO COMMITMENT just a ROMANTIC BOND..

Isn't it much sweeter and nicer when you both accomplished everything that you want in life and yet, you still end up

TOGETHER?

541. "Do not count what you lost, instead cherish what you have and plan to gain. The past never returns but the future may fulfill the loss."

542. Sometimes, we need to forget about some people from our past..because of one simple reason, they just don't belong in our future!

543. Mistakes are painful when they happen
But years later, a collection of mistakes is called..
EXPERIENCE.,
exactly what life is made of..

544. Tension of opposite.
"life is a series of pulls back and forth. you want to do one thing, but you are bound to do something else. something hurt you, yet you know it shouldn't. you take certain things for granted, even you know you should never take anything for granted. a tension of opposites, like a pull of rubber band. and most of us live some in the middle." - Tuesdays with Morrie

545. "you do not have to be brilliant to succeed in life. the only thing separating the average man from a fruitful intellectual life is DIRECTION. the ability to get the best possible results out of your own efforts."

546. "Scientists have proven that human minds are linked with each other through neuron activities.. So if you're think of someone all day long without any reason at all, that person is probably thinking of you too.. in any sense. " - Time Magazine

547. it's never nice when you forget things you're supposed to remember.. but it feels worse when you remember things you're supposed to forget..

548. The stolen glance is the oldest trick we know, yet definitely the most obvious sign of hidden admiration.

549. some few things i've learned by experience..
-don't talk too much when you're MAD.. you might say things you don't mean to say
-making a decision takes time, don't RUSH.. life is like chess, one wrong move & your game is all messed up
-never let your PRIDE ruin everything .. it's better to lose your pride than lose to someone because of your pride..

550. "No matter how crazy and funny the scenes around you, it is useless without the person you want to laugh with.