Kowts X

451. The person who pretends to know everything will not learn everything for the simple reason of not listening & refusing to learn more.

452. slowly crushing, my systems go flushing. down yonder, deep, deep i wonder.
might as we ll go & leave my thoughts wander.
conceal myself.. hide like an elf.. -11.19.07

453. When you realize that your happiness is just a second priority compared to the happiness of the one you are with.. then you know it's love.. :)

454. "When you are courting a nice girl, an hour seems like a second. When you sit on a red-hot cinder, a second seems like an hour. That's relativity." - Albert Einstein

455. you wanna know what's really hard?
its when you want to express what you feel and all you can do is to shut up.

456. Why is it human nature for every person to be bitter after they fell out of love?
Because its more than the anger,
Because it's more than the pain,
Because it's more that than the pride.
..What's the true reason? It's because of the Love lost, the Love that's probably your greatest, yet its never coming back..

457. One of Life's little irony..
We always have to joke when we actually mean what we say and we like to sound serious when we only want to play..

458. i'm wondering why Mr. Bean doesn't talk much..
is he mute?
i guess not..
but you see, even if he doesn't talk much, he makes us life, right?
& he never leaves his teddy behind..
..."Words aren't too important to show you care.. if you know how to show it, that may be enough."

459. In a bookstore, a guy was just standing, he seemed so happy he was quietly starring at the book. Then I asked, 'are you okay?' He said 'yes I am. the song and the book used to remind me of my best friend, she loved this song and this was her favorite book, but now she's far from me..'
...Sad right?

Fact: In everything we do, we hear, we eat, we smell, we see, we remember somebody.

**Reader's Digest Question: What is that thing that makes you reminded of me?**

460. nobody wants to hear this but sometimes, the person you want the most; is the person that you're better off without.. *sigh*

461. love is not a superhuman complex.
you don't love someone because you think he/she needs rescuing.
you love someone because you think you've found someone extraordinary & you wouldn't want to exchange it for anything else in the world..

462. Human Philosophy:
-why was Snow white given an apple with poison?
.. to show that not all people that are kind to you are really kind. they might have some other agenda against you. looks can be deceiving!

-why did Cinderella run away when the clock turned 12mn?
.. to remind us that every thing has its limitations even dreams!

-why did Ariel decided to exchange her fins with feet?
.. to show that anyone will try to lose everything just to be happy!

463. minsan, ang pag-ibig parang habulan..
kapag siya ang taya, gagawin niya ang lahat para mahabol ka..
pero pag napagod na siya, at ikaw na ang taya,
wala na pala.. ayawan na.. :(

464. "No matter how plain and simple you are, there's someone who will surely look at you as if you're the most perfect creature who ever existed"

465. why do we MISS someone?
..either we realize that we never treasured the moments when they're around & it left us wishing we could turn back time.. OR .. we were too happy & we enjoyed every moment with them, that we became so used to there presence..
..BUT when we finally walked separate lives, we realized that a moment spent without them is like a night sky slowly loosing its stars.. EMPTY (*.*)

466. "A tongue has no bones.. but it can BREAK a heart." - so be careful

467. people cry not because love ends
but because it still continues,
even if it's over..

468. Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass.
,it's learning to dance in the rain
,it's singing in the care when you don't even know all the words
,it's giving your heart to someone even if your a little scared at first
,it's about taking risks and making life worth living
..Because every minute you waste is a minute you'll never get back. Smile. Laugh. Be happy!

469. There are things in life that never last. But the truth is,.. you never lose them until you let them go..
.Life is about choices -
hanging on,
holding back,
letting go,
..some things do last. If you just let them, and if they let you..

470. There are many times that you don't know what to do or where to place yourself. That is why in life, there are some options.. One of them is to keep quiet..

471. ..minsan pinipili lang natin kung sino lang ang mga rereplyan natin.. . pero naisip mo ba na pinipili din nila kung sino itetext nila?

472. "If I were an assignment, will you take me home?" :)

473. Our life is like a ship that we steer through rough seas & calm waters. We cannot control the ocean, but we learn to navigate better..

474. whatever you give a woman, she's going to multiply. If you give a sperm, she'll give you a baby. If you give her a house, she'll give you a home. If you give her groceries, she'll give you a meal. If you give her a smile, she'll give you her heart. She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her. So if you give her any crap, you can expect a ton of crap..

475. Nothing in this life is ever easy. Sometimes even after doing our very best still we end up pretty short. But always remember, "Effort only releases its full rewards after one constantly refuses to get up."

476. Note: Arrow goes forward only after pulling in to backward.
Bullet goes forward only after pressing the trigger backward.
Every human being will get happy only after facing the difficulties in their life.. So don;t be afraid to face your difficulties.. THEY WILL PUSH YOU FORWARD..

477. Life is like a ball being dribbled..sometimes it goes up, but sometimes it goes down,.But remember: the harder you fall, the higher you bounce!

478. when you feel like quitting,..ask this question: "Did God stopped in doing good in my life?" if not, why give up?

479. Bakit kaya sa pag-ibig yung kabaliktaran mo ang napupunta sayo?
Bakit yung matitino napupunta sa salbahe?
Bakit yung mga seryoso napupunta sa naglalaro?
Bakit yung mabait napupunta sa pasaway?
..alam mo kasi, pag binigay sayo ang katulad mo,
hindi ka matutong magbago para sa isang tao.
hindi mo malalaman ang mali sayo
..at pag walang nagbago sayo,
hindi mo malalaman kung nagmahal ka ng tottoo.

480. in order for you to move on from a lost love, you must understand
what you fekt,
why you felt it
& why you should no longer feel it.. :(

481. "it will always be worth it.. to be with someone who knows your worth"

482. + Silence doesn't always mean yes, it may also mean no, but its better left unsaid
+ Anger doesn't always mean hatred, it could just be a means of coping
+ Laughter doesn't always mean happiness, sometimes it's just a mask
+ Tears doesn't always mean sorrow, it may also be an outlet of joy
+ Staying away doesn't always mean its the end, it may also mean the best beginning
... & though life is so complicated, it's always beautiful..

483. "an arrow can be shot only by pulling it back, so when life's dragging you back with difficulties, it means, it will launch you into something huge!"

484. "you'll never know how strong you are not until being strong is the only choice you have."

485. "There's nothing scarier than getting what you really, really want because by then, you'd have something really, really painful to lose."

486. "kahit gaano ka pa kasama, may iilang taong kaya ka rin tingnan sa mabuting paraan. ang tawag sa kanila - TUNAY na kaibigan."

487. NICE TO KNOW:
"Call it counterintuitive, but a new study published in Psychological Science has found that thoughs of death can make people happier, not sadder. Researchers say we have a kind of psychological immune response to death, making us more emotionally resilient than we think possible." - Dr. Nathan DeWall, Kentucky University; Reader's Digest May 2008

488. Love is like a stapler. It's easy to attach but its hard to DETACH and the worst is your able to detach it yet it still leaves the paper DAMAGED.

489. No matter how hard we try to be matured, we will always be kids when we all get hurt and cry..

490. Some won’t appreciate what you say or do, but as long as you speak honestly from the heart, you’ll be fine. This is not a perfect life, but life loves the person who dares to live it by being real.

491. “Sometimes no matter how much you miss someone it’s still wiser not to have that person…back again.”

492. Love is not always a fairytale. There are people who give so much love to those who don’t love them back. There are some people who feel so loved and find out in the end they are fooled. There are some who’s into mutual love but can’t call as there partner as their own ‘coz someone already holds the title. There are some who gave so much love but the others won’t believe ‘coz they always consider your past. There are some who received so much love but can’t seem to move on from the previous relationship or the others just want to play game and choose their playmate. Now which story is yours?

493. “The best way to heal a heart that has been broken is to kill that person who has made it happen.”

494. It’s never the tears that measure the pain…Sometimes it’s the smile we fake just to show others we’re okay.

495. never love if you're not prepared to be hurt. never start if you don't have plans to finish it. never speak if you don't mean it, most importantly - never use someone to move on..

496. Sometimes it’s easier to let the one you love to go not know the real reason, because it would surely hurt more when you find it unreasonable.

497. You know what’s nice when having a hang-over? It’s when your head aches more than your heart.

498. I hate insomnia, not because it doesn’t put me into sleep despite the fact that I’m tired, but because it puts me into a state of reminiscing memories I know I couldn’t bring back. I wish I could drive insomnia away. Not so I can dream well, but to save my pillow from being drowned by my tears. :(

499. There are two ways to slide easily thru life: to believe everything or to doubt everything; both ways save us from thinking. - Alfred Korzybski

500. If people have to leave us in one way or another, it would be best if they'll do it 100% lie-free and just slap the truth in our faces. We all do deserve something better than just lame excuses because lies in all sort do make us appear stupid.

Kowts IX

400. "Ano namang mapapala mo kakaisip sa nakaraan at sa mga pede pang mangyari? Wla ka naman sigurong super powers para maibalik ang nakalipas na. Dapat matuto kang pahalagahan ang mga nangyayari sayo sa kasalukuyan. Isipin mo un ngayon. i-enjoy mo lang ang buhay. Wag kang emo. Hindi ka talagang magiging masaya kung di mo tutulungan ang sarili mo. Natural lang na makaramdam nang lungkot paminsan-minsan pero ang pagiging miserable? Wag kang hibang. Choice mo yan.. "

401. somewhere between heartaches and waiting, comes the chance to be found by someone who can show you that you don't have to be just an option and reliever.. but the CHOICE!

402. the person you see in the mirror early in the morning is exactly the person i care for,
no perfume,
hair not fixed,
no status,
no title..

just you and your good heart..

403. "finding someone to fall in love with is nice.. but finding someone who would keep you falling even after you've fallen is irreplaceable.."

404. If we contemplate on the past for too long, we pass up the chance to change and grow.. Whether we like it or not, it takes extra effort to accommodate changes in our lives.
..we have to make choices
..we have to make space
..we have to let things go
..we have to let things change!

405. Everything that you lose has its own way of returning back to you, the funny thing is, it's not always the way you expect it, sometimes it's even more..

406. A man went to see a psychiatrist.

He said: "doctor, i am lonely, despondent and miserable.. Can you help me?"

The psychiatrist suggested that he go to a circus and see a famous clown who was said to make even the most despondent laugh with merriment.

His patient said: "I am that clown" :(

407. Women are like apples on a tree. The best ones are at the top. Men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. So they just settle for the rotten apples beneath; not good but easy to get. The the apples on the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they are amazing! They just have to wait for the right man to come, those who are brace enough to climb the tree all the way to the top, not scared to take a fall and willing to take the risk..

408. you can tell if that person is someone special because no matter what kind of mood you are in, he/she can always manage to make you smile..

409. a true friend helps you discover a lil more about yourself everyday, because they always encourage you to share who you are and what you are feeling..
..they accept you at all times, they love you not only BECAUSE, but they love you IN SPITE OF.
..they care about your happiness as much as they care about their own.
..a true friend stands beside you when others walk away. they never stop believing in you, even if you stop believing in yourself.
..they have the smile that hugs you, the laughter that heals your heart

410. its sad i get busy sometimes & i forget to keep in touch with you.. but hey, nothing's changed! just want you to know,.. "i still care"

411. "gamitin ang puso para alagaan ang mga taong malalapit sayo.
...gamitin ang utak para alagaan ang sarili mo.." - bob ong

412. Heated gold becomes ornament.
beated copper becomes wire.
depleted stone becomes statue.
so..
the more pain you get in life..
the more you become
"valuable".

413. You'll never find anybody that achieves great success in life without give-up story. Nothing comes free. And there will come a time when you will find that you too will have to give up something good if you want something better..

414. The person who pretends to know everything will not learn everything for the simple reason of not listening and refusing to learn more..

415. "never use your failure yesterday as an excuse for not trying again today.. we may not be able to undo the damages or reverse the consequences, but we can always make a new start"

416. never assure that love is enough to make someone stay or come back to you. because when the pain strikes the heart, love fades away no matter how great it was..

417. do you know what's the mark of a person worth keeping for the rest of your life?
..it's when you become impossible to deal with, yet they stay.. :)

418. A wise girl kisses but never loves.
Listens but never believes.
And leaves before she is left.. -.-

419. you really don't have to be super nice always..
sometimes you have to show your bad side
so that you can sort out who can accept you at your worst mood..

420. true love never surrenders.
it might get tired.
but a lil rest is enough to love again
even better..
coz true love would never complain,
it would always find ways to understand..

421. "if you want to know where your heart is..
look where your mind goes when it wanders.."

422. it's not always right to stay in pain when you know you've already had too much and it's not always wrong to be happy, when you know it's about time that you deserve to be..

423. "it's fatal to believe into something for sure won't happen..
but it's pretty damn deadly not to hope a bit.."

424. Don't look for the things or people that aren't there, just always be thankful for what you have; because the more you look for something not with you, the more you find something wrong with what you have,,

425. trust should be like the feeling of a one-year-old baby..
when you throw him in the air, he laughs ..
because he knows you will never let him fall..

426. "one day, you'll be surprised to see yourself smiling at the thought of caring for someone so much, who used to be just and ordinary person.."

427. Psychology speaks:
..it's not what people do to us that hurts us. In the most fundamental sense, it is our chosen response to what they to us that hurts us!

428. "Life is not about searching for the things that could not be found..
It's about letting the unexpected happen
and finding things you never searched for.."

429. "Love is a contemporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being 'in love' which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itsefl is what is left over when being in love has burned away.." -Captain Corelli's Mandolin

430. sabi nila" 'kung sino may kailangan, siya lumapit'
..panu un nalulunod??
siya rin ba ang lalapit?
*laugh* but look beyond the joke..

it's not always the people with worries should come to us for help. sometimes we need to be sensitive enough to know when to make the first move..

431. "it's okay to look back on the things you threw away, but never pick them again..
simply because - it's unsterile."

432. Sentimental Scribbles:
.."no matter how wasted you think you are, there will always be someone who will love you because you're not like anyone else.."

433. Sometimes the greatest journey is the distance between two people.

434. a child asked his father: "why do i need to be humble?"
his father said: "when you choose the lowest path, there's no place to fall & the only way is up.."

435. Sometimes all we need in life is to tell whatever it is that we have inside.
We just need to let it out then let it go.
Whatever the consequences - we just have to be brave enough to stand up with our feelings.
No one said life is easy but we should not make it a lot harder. Besides, life is too short. So do what your heart tells you. Stop thinking, stop worrying.
Just keep this in mind: you might not have a second chance - so spill it out then embrace the result.

436. "Just don't give up trying to do what you really want to do. When there is love and inspiration, I don't think you can go wrong." = Ella Fitzgerald

437. why can't we love two persons at the same time?
..it is the same reason as to why we can't wear two different shoes at the same time..
POSIBLE,
..pero panget tingnan..

438. sometimes, you have to pretend that you're happy and fine.
until you realize that your pretension has become your strength to move on.

439. "Keep in mind that we should always thank those who hurt us, especially those who did so bad, we are forced to transform. They risk the eternal verdict of going to hell just to make us better than who we are.."

440. Don't ever forget your old friends when new ones get added...because..
"A new broom may sweep clean, but the old brush knows all the corners.."

441. view a negative experience in your life like how you look at a photo negative..
a single negative..
can create a number of positive points..

442. "someone can make you feel that you are so special, but you'll never know if it's his habit to make everybody feel that way.."

443. what's love?
..it's when you find someone who didn't meet any of your standards,..yet you say, "i've found the right one."

444. "the only way to grow is to have the initiative to get out of your comfort zone and do things you thought you couldn't do.."

445. How i wish Cupid could also promise just like what Starbucks does..
"your drink should be perfect everytime. if not, let us know & we'll make it right.."

446. "it was like that feeling being outside in the rain without a raincoat or umbrella. you prevent getting wet for a while and then YOU just surrender totally and YOU realize it feels pretty nice.. then YOU wonder, why do we fight the things we fight for when giving into them isn't so bad at all?"

447. "everything will fall in their right places at the right time. but the right time will not come if we don't give efforts to push everything to get near their right places.."

448. "love always sparks through the good times, and it's up to you to MAKE IT LAST through the bad times.."

449. a guy was asked by his girlfriend why does he always forget their anniversary.. his reply was short but sweet.. "what is one day compared to, you, being mine everyday?"

450. "finding someone to fall in love with is nice.. but finding someone who would keep you falling even after you've fallen, is irreplaceable.."

Kowts VIII

351. Life is about waking up each day to discover something new..
About meeting old people but making new conversations..
Walking through old road but still feeling nice about it..
Realizing that you have grown a day older but still feeling young at heart..
Meeting busy schedule but still finding time for old friends..
Being nostalgic about gone days but looking forward to better days..

352. "God can't fix a broken heart if you don't give him all the pieces.."

353. bravery is saying no to what you believe is no,
sacrifice is saying no to what you think is yes,
confidence is saying yest to what you thing is yes,
trusting is saying yes to what you thinks is no..

354. i believe that true love means letting go. coz true love means loving more than enough that you would never even think of leaving at all..

355. Happiness comes when we stop complaining about the troubles we have & offer thanks for all the troubles we don't have..

356. One important lesson in math that we can apply to our daily lives.. be careful with the SIGNS..

357. "wag mong bitiwan ang bagay na di mo kayang makitang hinahawakan ng iba." napakasimple diba?
...mas simple.."wag mong hawakan ang alam mong bibitawan mo lang"
at ang pinaka.simple "wag mo ng hawakan kong alam mong hawak na ng iba!"
at ang pinaka pinaka.simple pa sa pinaka.simple, "wag na wag ka ng magbalak humawak pag alam mong may hawak ka na!"..

358. they met.
but the timing isn't right..
she had her reasons and he had his own.
they're both confused, so they decided to part ways..
he wants her to wait.
she said she will
whatever it takes..
years later, they saw each other.
but too much time has passed.
too late to make it work.

..people change, so is the heart..

359. SPECIAL -someone you'll never forget for the rest of your life.
IMPORTANT - someone you need for the rest of your life..
..learn the difference!

360. they say, as long as one person cares for you, life isn't a waste.. so, when things go terribly wrong & you feel like giving up, always remember:
..i'm your friend & i care.. :)

361. One day, a conversation between a teenager and his grandpa was heard.
The young man said, "Gee, grandpa, your generation didn't have all these social diseases. You didn't have AIDS during your time. What did you wear to have safe sex?" The wise old man replied. "A wedding ring."
...makes sense right?

362. Things we must be thankful for:
-Worries at the start of the day: means you're still alive.
-Headache at the end of the day: means you can still work hard.
-Clothes that don't fit: means you have a good appetite
-The mess to clean after a party: means you have friends around you.
-Roof that need fixing: means that you've got a house.
-Taxes to pay: means you're not unemployed.
-Heartaches: means you love selflessly.
-Too many text messages: means you are remembered too much..

363. If yesterday didn't end up the way you planned its..
always remember.. "if God had wanted your yesterday to be perfect., He doesn't need to create today.."

364. how do you know you're happy again?
it is when you're alone yet you don't feel lonely or incomplete.
it is when everything is wrong yet you find simple reasons to smile..
it is when you wake up every morning without any regret from yesterday..
and it is when you feel beautiful after every awful thing that happened..

365. Facts about friends:
-50% of them know you and like you coz of the favors you do for them..
-30% of them have seen you at your best..
-15% of them share your pain
.. but only 5% knows the real story of your entire life..

366. What's love?
Its when you find someone who didn't meet any of your standards. Yet you say.. "I've found the right one.."

367. Sooner or later, start taking yourself seriously. Know when you need a break.
Know what to get worked up about & what to get rid of. Do something that makes you stronger & more complete. Because its never too late to have a life & never too late to change one..

368. It hurts to know that we've fallen for someone who would just leave us hanging. Why? Coz sometimes we close our eyes from the reality that they never really love us, they just care!

369. Finding a perfect love? There is no perfect love!
The only thing you can do to make it somehow perfect is to be SATISFIED..:)

370. 10 Ways to love people.. true & biblical..
i. Listen without interrupting (Proverbs 18)
ii. Speak without accusing (James 1:19)
iii. Give without sparing (Proverbs 21:26)
iv. Pray without ceasing (Colossians 1:9)
v. Answer without arguing (Proverbs 17:1)
vi. Share without pretending (Ephesians 4:15)
vii. Enjoy without complaint (Philippians 2:14)
viii. Trust without waivering (Corinthians 13:7)
ix. Forgive without punishing (Colossians 3:13)
x. Promise without forgetting (Proverbs 13:12)

371."the loveliest day is when you wake up to find that love still colors your world through people who truly care and never fail to forget you.."

372. The greatest value of having good friends is not what you get from them, but the better person you become because of them..

373. never dream of a perfect person to love, for it can only happen in our dreams & in this life we have to settle with someone whoever comes. someone not perfect but real!

374. One great thing in life is finding someone who knows all of your mistakes and imperfections, yet, still finds you absolutely amazing. :)

375. when you're out there looking for that perfect person.. keep this things in mind:
people change no matter how hard they try not to..
as you grow older, you mature & with each new level of maturity comes different ideas, different needs and wants. the person who was perfect for you at 20's could be the person you hate at 30's.
you have to find someone who will: grow old with you, change with you, laugh with you & cry with you..
...remember that there is no such perfect person in this world but there will always be someone who will complete you.. :)

376. "Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get, its what you are expected to give - which is everything" - Anonymous

377. your smile is one of the most important part of your personality. it is a mirror that reflects the good things inside of you..

378. God will shower graces more than you expected, not just because you asked for them. but someone around you wished them for you..

379. If your life is sad and fruitless; it doesn't matter who praises you, but if your life is fruitful and happy, it doesn't matter who criticizes you..

380. If your friend is too frank that what she/he says hurts you.. don't get mad. because Donkey once told Shrek: "Only true friends can be cruelly honest.."

381. understand how God has beautifully added one more day in your life - not because you need it, but because someone else needs you..

382. Life is a Paradox:
What you want you don't get
What you get you don't enjoy
What you enjoy is not permanent
What is permanent is boring.
That's life.
But they are meant to build the best in you! :)

383. 'seduction isn't about forcing someone to do something which they don't wanna do, its about pushing someone to do things which they secretly wanna do..' :)

384. One lie is enough to break trust.
One sentence is enough to break a heart.
One second is enough to lose a battle.
One mistake is enough to lose a job.
One smile is enough to fall in love.
One touch is enough to heal a wounded heart.
But whatever our pain, whatever our struggle..One GOD is MORE thank enough..

385. "do you know what happens when you hurt people?"
they may begin to love you less and begin to forget that they loved you once..

386. "sweetness of a person will make you happy.. but it will bring confusion if you will see the same person with the same sweetness with someone else.."

387. Sometimes i wish he'd be like my dad. always scared to lose me. even though he knows i belong to him from the start..

388. "HEART FOR SALE"
who wants to buy my heart?! i'm having it for sale.. though it's only second hand, still it functions well. coz once i sold it whole but he returned it into pieces. so now i had it all repaired so now i'm back in business.
..who wants to buy my heart? satisfaction guaranteed. it has free service charge & a lifetime warranty. so if you're asking for the price. well, you're in for a bargain. it only costs your love..

389. Two kids playing in a park began to argue.
One said: I hate you! I'll never play with you again!

For a few moments they played separately. Then later they're playing together again.

How do kids manage to be so mad one minute and best of friends next?
Simply because it's more important for them to be happy than to be right.

390. "I just know two things.
First is I want to spend the rest of my life with a great person.
Second is that great person is you.

391. Sometimes we think we're part of someone's life.
We share things with them, spend time with them & gather good memories with them.
Then suddenly, they'll show you that no matter how much you want them to be part of you, it can't happen.
..Inspite of what you've been through together, you'll realize that you're still strangers, as you always have been..

392. i was walking over a tall tree when suddenly its fruit fell down on my head & it did hurt me. i then looked up at the tree and a sudden thought hit me.
.."do i need to be hurt first, before i look up above?"
--make sense, right?!

393. There's no such thing as COINCIDENCE.
People meet for a special reason whatever that may be. I'm so glad i have you in my life..clueless, yet something to smile for.. :)

394. "be grateful that you don't have everything you want.. that means, you have the opportunity to be happier tomorrow than you are today.. "

395. trust should be like the feeling of a one-year old baby..
when you throw him in the air, he laughs. because he knows you will never let him fall..

396. Masarap hawakan kamay ng mahal mo, at isiping kayo lang dalawa sa mundo..
Pero paano kung kabilang kamay niya hawak pala ng iba?
Bibitiw ka ba?
O mas hihigpitan mo pa ang paghawak sa kanya?

397. almost everyone's asking why some people don't want to have relationships again.
simple answer..
...they wouldn't go for a relationship which they know will not grow. why bother being being with someone just for the sake of being with someone. they are not afraid to take the risk of falling in love.. they are not just dumb to be with someone they don't see spending years with..
...it may be hard and painful but it's for the better.

398. "you can have anything you want if you're willing to sacrifice everything you have.. nothing goes without a price. so before you get in the battle, decide how much you are will to lose.."

399. a positive attitude can make a normal day to a great day..
REMEMBER:: "losers let things happen,.. winners making things happen.."

400. A drop of water breaks a stone, not by force, but by dropping continuously.. That's the power of patience and perseverance..

Kowt VII

301. the hardest part about walking away from the one you love.. is the part that you have to realize that he/she will never ever run after you..

302. they say if love becomes painful, its time to let go and save yourself.. but just keep in mind, if love is true, pain is never a reason to let go..

303. how do you see that someone special is "the one"?
.. pretty much like finding the end of a roll of scotch tape. .you don't need to see, you just feel it.. :)

304. happiness can't be found when you seek it for yourself..
but when you give it to others, it will find its way to back to you.
that's the mystery of happiness, it grows when SHARED.. :)

305. Barry Manilow was wrong when he said..

'we had the right love at the wrong time.."

It is simply an excuse for not making better decisions while in love. It's an excuse in not standing up for what you feel and most of all, it's an excuse for not being brave enough to stand by your love..

306. "Staying with someone you really love even if you know it's better letting go is like standing under the rain..

It feels good but you know it's gonna make you sick..

307. Sometimes..
you just have to PRETEND that you're happy.
just to stop EVERYONE.. from asking you what the hell happened..

308. Things i've just learned..
..."in this world, its hard to tell who's true and who's not; people may be good at the beginning and cruel in the end; if you are too trusting. they'll take advantage of you; if they know you're weak, they'll hurt you; after loving them, they'll leave you.

..never allow somebody to be your priority when in fact you're just her/his option..
Sometimes, it just feels good to fall in love but most of the times, it hurts,,

309. "bitterness doesn't mean you hate falling in love, it's just being wise and careful so that your heart won't be used and torn apart again.."

310. everyday i wish for someone to love me and who will love me in return.. today, i think i;m gonna wish something else.. the maturity to realize that if it wouldn't come,.. i would still be fine.. :)

311. just when you've moved on and thought you've finally gone far enough, something brings you to a touchstone. and that's when you realize, love has a habit of coming back..

312. just a thought:
"why ruin the perfectly-arranged petals of a beautiful flower when you know from the start that he/she loves you not"

313. Love is like a lost object. If you search too hard, you won't find it.
But if you just forget about it momentarily,...
It will show up in the most unexpected way.. :)

314. How would you know if you're happy?

It's when you're alone yet you don't feel lonely or incomplete. Its when everything is wrong yet you find simple reasons to smile. Its when you wake up every morning without any regret from yesterday.

315. Women are like police. They can have all the evidences in the world, but they still want the confession - Chris Rock

316. What could be nicer than seeing your loved one smile at you so sweetly for no reason? What could be more flattering than hearing him/her say you look good in whatever you wear? What could be more heartwarming than sharing with him/her an umbrella under the cold rain?
...It's to hear him/her say, "I've fallen in love with you more than I planned & I know for sure, there's no way I'll ever let you go.."

317. Feelings are made to be expressed, its not meant to be helpless nor kept. Don't be a loser fighting, never make regrets for yourself to suffer. Coz you know what? IN SILENCE, it hurts more..

318. "anyone can make you happy by doing something special.. BUT only someone special can you happy without doing anything.."

319. touching moments at bikini bottom..
Spongebob: "what do you usually do when i'm gone?"
Patrick: "wait for you to come back."

320. "sometimes, someone can mean so much to you that even the truth can't change your mind."

321. Love is..
when my granny had arthritis, and couldn't paint her nails.. my grandpa did it for her. even though he had arthritis too.. :)

322. Question: "can LOVE really last a LIFETIME?"
Answer: scientist found out that romantic loves involves chemical changes in the brain that last 12-18months. after that, you and your partner are on your own..

-love can absolutely last for a lifetime as desired to be maintained. meaning, its both your choice,,
Bottomline: IT WILL LAST, if you know how to commit.

323. "The most hurtful kind of lies are the ones delivered by the people you care about the most. It makes you doubt everything you know and makes you wonder why you care so much and worst of all, it puts you in the position of deciding whether to tell them you know they're lying or act like you're too dull to even know the difference. Keep this in mind the next time you lie to someone who cares about you, because more often than not, they know and it hurts a lot." - Grey's Anatomy

324. we also have the science to tell us exemplary love stories..
Photosynthesis - the relationship of the sun and the leaves. where you meet someone who gives you all his love and never expects anything in return.

Magnetism - where you meet your opposite, just the right one for you, and never got separated since then..

and the Law of Gravity - where you're destined to fall and ultimately meet the one you truly deserved without pitstops..

325. in the chase between cat & mouse, the mouse mostly wins. this is because the cat is running for its food & the mouse for its life...PURPOSE is most important than NEED.

326. Do not live by the standards of this world nor by the expectations of other people. Remember: A person who follows the crowd usually gets lost in it.. Be different! ;)

327. "never make the one you love feel alone.. especially when you're there." -Nicolas Sparks

328. "there is no remedy for love but to love more.." - Thoreau

329. "i've learn not to worry about love; but to honor its coming with all my heart.." - Alice Walker

330. when you love, it doesn't matter how many times you cried, how many words you've heard, but its how much you care and how long you're willing to sacrifice.. even if it means, taking away your own happiness..

331. fixing someone's broken heart is much more like treating a sickness, no matter how hard you try, if you're not the right medicine, you can never cure the pain!

332. people always think that the most painful thing is losing the one you love in your life.. the truth is, the most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much - forgetting that you are special too..

333. "Learn. But always learn with other people by your side. Don't be alone in the search because if you take a wrong step, you'll have no one there to help put you right" - Paolo Coelho

334. A love should not be just words & talk;
it must be true love, which shows itself in action.
Relationships take time & effort, and the best way to spell love is TIME..

Attention says: i value you enough to give you my most precious asset.. my time.

Whenever you give your time, you are making a sacrifice & sacrifice is the essence of love. You can give without loving, but you cannot love without giving..

335. the face can speak a thousand emotions but it can easily mask what the heart truly feels. Don't be fooled. for the happiest face maybe masking the most hurting heart..


336. I hate insomnia, not because it doesn’t put me into sleep despite the fact that I’m tired, but because it puts me into a state of reminiscing memories I know I couldn’t bring back. I wish I could drive insomnia away. Not so I can dream well, but to save my pillow from being drowned by my tears. :(

337. If people have to leave us in one way or another, it would be best if they'll do it 100% lie-free and just slap the truth in our faces. We all do deserve something better than just lame excuses because lies in all sort do make us appear stupid.

338. When someone breaks your heart, you turn into a small ball of self-pity. You lie on bed, you hug your knees and keep them close like a fetus. Freud said: "It's human instinct to go back to the womb where we can feel safe."

339. No one is born happy, but all of us are born with the ability to create happiness. Just remember, happiness is a state of mind and it depends on ones attitude towards life, not on what one has.

340. There were times I love to hate you. And then I love to love you. It's like I want to throw you off a cliff, then rush to the bottom to catch you.

341. Forgive my mind for it can't forget how life began the day we met. Forgive my soul for it sees that we're really meant to be. Forgive this feeling I just can't kill and forgive my heart, it loves you still.

342. If you want someone...
don't expect that person to just fly to you. You should put a little effort and patience into winning that person.
If it doesn't work, well, you just have to do it the hard way..
There are words such as:
KIDNAP, RAPE, BLACKMAIL, TORTURE.
Be creative!

343. each of us represents a star in the sky...
sometimes we shine with the rest, sometimes we twinkle alone, & sometimes, we fall and make someone's dreams come true.. :)

344. Intelligence can bring you to success. But its your attitude that keeps you there.
Remember: "Grades don't define a person. ATTITUDE does."

345. when you make others live, learn, laugh & love, you do the same for yourself..for what you get out of life comes from what you put in it..

346. Learn to love with all your heart and accept the unlovable side of others for anyone can love a rose. but only a great heart can include the thorns..

347. "being clever is when you believe only half of what you hear.. and being brilliant is when you know which half to believe..

348. We are capable of making ourselves happy but happiness is somewhat different when someone else does it for us. .. it's much sweeter!:)

349. you really don't have to be nice always..sometimes you have to show your bad side ,..so that you can sort out who can accept you at your worst mood..

350. more often than not, a relationship sucks. it could crush you, it might even kill you..
..so would you go for Scofield's advice: "stay free. stay out. stay alive."
or would you go for Dr. House's words of wisdom: "if i do this surgery, you might die. but don't you think being normal is worth the risk?"

Kowts VI

251. Math tells us 3 of the saddest love stories..

TANGENT LINES who had one chance to meet and then parted forever;

PARALLEL LINES who were never meant to meet;

& ASYMPTOTES who can get closer and closer but will never be together..

252. Everyday is irreplaceable, so don't ruin yours by allowing the negative moods of others pull you into their frame of mind.

253. In the cruel world of love, i've learned that
PROMISES aren't CONTRACTS
kisses aren't INSURANCE
Sweet words aren't GUARANTEES
Big hugs aren't BONDS
& that nothings PERMANENT in this life..
One day he/she's MINE, the next day, he/she's GONE
LAST NIGHT he/she was SWEET,
the next morning, he/she's INSENSITIVE..
Loving someone is not always about fairytales and fantasies..
It's about TRUTH & REALITIES..

254. pretending to be happy when you're in pain is just an example of how strong you are as a person, still making that simple smile when every part of you dies..

255. Life is a constant change.
Love is the greatest surprise.
Friendship is your best defense.
Maturity comes with responsibilities.
& death is just around the corner.
So expect little, assume nothing. Sometimes be selfish, learn from your mistakes, listen to your heart. Take care of your friends, treasure your family, achieve your goals. Cry because of laughter, laugh because of pain, eat your pride & throw up all the anguish in you. & always remember that LIFE is the best gift coz not everyone gets the chance to have it..

256. Mind Teaser:
Don't ever let yourself get so busy that you miss those little but important extras in life..

- the beauty of a day

- the smile of a friend

- the serenity of a quiet moment alone.

For it is often life's smallest pleasures & gentlest joys that make the biggest & most lasting difference.

257. you fail to understand a few things.

you even at times close your mind from matters you never want to face.

you get depressed.

you mess up when you can't manage everything coming by.

you cry when you can't help yourself anymore,

you mourn,

you become sad.

you try to transform your emotions into something else, just to forget.

you lie.

you make mistakes.

you get jealous & upset.

you feel down like a toy being dumped.

your hurt.

but you still choose to exist.

just because YOU LOVE..

258. "wag mong bitiwan ang bagay na hindi mo kayang makitang hinahawakan ng iba.."

napaka.simple diba?

259. On holding on:
have you ever wondered why even if someone is too numb to feel you, or insensitive to notice you, you still choose to stay?

It's because beyond what others see in that persn, you feel a tiny chance that maybe, just maybe if you hold on a little bit tighter, he/she will learn to value you..

260. There are time when i just couldn't help but wonder WHY TRUST is just too hard to give while jealousy is too easy to feel..

261. a girl & a boy were crossing a narrow bridge..

the boy holds the girl's hand..

the girl said, "No. i'll hold your hand.."

the boy asked, "what's the difference?"

the girl said, "if you hold my hand, you might let go. but if hold your hand, i'll never let you go.."

262. "If Love can only be infused thru IV, it will be the fluid of choice for majority of cardiac diseases,,"

263. You yearn for someone not because you want to be complete. but because you want to add more color into your life. That person must not necessarily break thru your busy sched. That person must inspire you to manage your time well instead. You see, its not a matter of distance & time. It's more like friendship on a higher level. Its smiling alone every once in a while, knowing that somehow, someone smiles at the thought of you..

264. "the mind grows by taking in, but the heart grows by giving out."

"a crisis doesn't break a person; it reveals what a person is made of."

265. "Life is never about the people who act true to my face. It is always about the people who remain true behind my back."

266. Sometimes if a string gets too tangled and messed up to solve. Its better to cut it out to start a new one and save the untangled part.

267. never let anyone make you feel that you don't deserve what you want. you are worthy of your happiness. what they say doesn't change anything. it doesn't change you, unless you let it.

268. Some lessons are best learned thru pain, sometimes our visions clear only after our eyes are washed with tears. Sometimes we have to be broken so we can be whole again. If God meant the day to be perfect, He would not have invented tomorrow. So don't worry if today wasn't perfect coz you still have tomorrow. And if there's anything in your heart that feels right, go after it no matter what it takes..

269. do you know?

that most people presume that the summation of all the causes of hurt, pain and hatred in one word is just..

EXPECTATIONS.

270. Loving someone is not an assurance they'll love you back. Don't expect love to grow in their hearts. If it doesn't, be contented that it grew in yours.

271. "never think that you are not good enough for anyone; always ask yourself if they are good enough for you.."

272. Be realistic.

If the person you love doesn't love you, then pray for someone who will. Don't rush things as they say:

The best part of life is having someone "worth waiting for"

273. There are people who keep what they feel. They still smile even though it hurts. They pretend to be fine even if they're not. They seem to be strong even if inside they are melting. Know what's hard to say at this moment? Sometimes, we are one of them.

274. heartbreak is an odd kind of pain, coz you're not dying, you're not even sick; all intents & purposes, you're perfectly fine yet inside, where your heart used to be, you hurt so much that you can't breathe, you can't sleep & you can't stop the tears from falling; you may eat too much, you may not eat at all; non-smokers light up, nondrinkers find a bar; a great equalizer, coz it can bring even the strongest man to his knees..

275. in love, you have to expect absence at some point, but that doesn't mean an end. all you have to do is to wait for the time, give the person space. because true love is proved when a person has seen the best people in the world, but still turns back to where you are, reaches for your hand, & chooses you above the world's best..

276. "I TRIED..." - the sweetest thing you could ever say for a failed relationship. May be the shortest but it compliments everything..

277. Its harmless to be with a person who has that special spark for you, laughs around with you, flirts a little with you. After all there's no commitment involved, it's actually fun, if fun is really all your after. But believe me; it gets confusing in the long run & you just sit in a corner wondering.. IS THIS ALL?

278. you can never teach a guy to love a girl the way she wants to be loved. you have to wait for him to do it in his own way, in his own time. that's the saddest part of being a girl. BUT you can never teach a girl to love the guy back the she did before if she already grew tired and fed up, understanding and waiting to be appreciated and love the way she deserves to be loved. that's the saddest part of being an insensitive man.

279. i just want that one boy who i could be myself around, the reason why i smile is because he put it there, and the reason why i'm done looking for the right one is because i would have him right infront of me.

280. "i'd rather be the pain that you remember, rather than the love that you forget.." :(

281. If you can't get someone off your mind, it's maybe because he/she is supposed to be there. Remember, the mind can recognize what the heart's trying to deny.

282. Fall in love? That's a hard thing to do. I'd rather have beer, it makes you warm inside, much like love. Then when you had too much to drink, you fall hard. Same thing. But when you have too much to love and get hurt, it takes so long to recover while with beer, just sleep then it's over..

283. nakahanap na ako ng bago..
magkamukha nga kayo eh.
mas malambing siya kesa sayo..
mas mabait at di ako pinapaiyak..
kaso alam mo?
may prublema nga lang,
mas mahal pa rin kita.. :(

284. PAIN is the mentor..
REALIZATION is the lesson..
but how can it be applied,
WHEN YOU STILL LOVE THE PERSON?

285. Ponder on this:
sometimes its not LOVE..
sometimes you've just become so attached..
that you've developed a need for that person..

just a need..
and not LOVE

286. i have come to realize that his just a guy that i like and i truly love.
but his not mine. and i don't need to do things to make him love me.
coz if he wanted to..
HE WOULD..

287. have you ever noticed that the more special you treat someone, the more that someone takes you for granted.. know why? coz they think.. . YOU WON'T EVER CHANGE..

288. suicide is the ultimate form of selfishness. it's unlikely that anyone cowardly enought to take his own life and be brave enough to watch his own death.

289. moving on is not about "never looking back". its about taking a glance at yesterday and noticing how much you've grown since then..

290. when you have found the reason to walk away, never look back. just keep on walking, even if the destination is unclear. it will take a lot of courage for every step you make, but it will save some pride and honor for yourself. its better to get lost moving on, than being stranded and broken after all..

291. People said I've changed so much,.. well here's the honest truth; I grew up.
I stopped letting people push me around,
I learned that you can't always be happy;
I accepted reality.

292. "you weren't going to let go. i could see that. i didn't want to do it - it felt like it would kill me to do it - but i knew that if i couldn't convince you that i didn't love you anymore, it would just take you that much longer to get on with your life. i hoped that, if you thought i'd moved on, so would you." - Edward Cullen

293. one very hard thing in this life is when you know inside your heart that you love that person but you run out of reasons to fight for what you feel. :(

294. probably the greatest torture you could ever do to your heart is to let somebody go... at the tiome you're loving that person most.. *ouch*

295. pull your heart out of its comfort zone. you'd never learn how to love unless you'd learn how to get hurt.

296. ang sakit pag ang mahal mo ay may kasamang iba. nasasaktan ka dahil lagi silang magkakasama. pero di mo alam, pag ikay'y nakatalikod, nakatingin siya sayo at sasabihing.. "sana ikaw ang kasama ko.."

297. if i love you this much, and i'm not the one for you..
then the one for you will be everything i am
...and everything i'm not.

298. i wish i could shout out all the questions in my mind.
but something's stopping me..
it's the feart of breaking my heart upon hearing the answers..

299. confronted with the truth we can respond two ways;
we can become angry and defensive
OR
we can be humbly and broken..

300. I was never one to patiently pick up broken fragments and glue them together again and tell myself that the mended whole was as good as new. What is broken is broken - and I'd rather remember it as it was at its best than mend it and see the broken pieces as i lived. - Margaret Mitchell

Kowts V

201. "when something goes wrong, it's more important to decide who is going to fix it than who's going to blame."

202. Nothing lasts forever.
So live it up & drink it down.
Laugh it off.
Avoid all the drama.
Take chances &
never have regrets
coz for once..

What you did was what you wanted..

203. They say love is just around the corner,.. i must be walking in circles.

204. i remember the day she/he let me go. it was so painful & hard for me to move on.. then i asked him/her, "wasn't my love good enuf?" she looked down and said, "no, it was too much!" :(

205. Masakit mahalin ang taong di ka na MAHAL, nakakapagod LANG. Pero kahit umiwas ka na may mas sasakit pa, ang patagong umasa na babalik siya habang hinihintay mo ang araw na matanggap mong wala ng pag.asa..

206. Thought for life: We all love to spend lots of money buying new clothes, but never realize that some of the best moments in life are enjoyed without clothes.. :p

207. "The best way to heal a heart that has been broken is to kill that person who has made it happen." very inspiring! :p

208. i hate people who breaks promises, but i hate myself more! for even though the promise was already broken, i still expect it to be done..

209. How could you possibly stop falling for someone when every time you look at that person, you want to slap his face and shout: "stop smiling, you're stealing my heart."

210. Find someone:
..who isn't afraid to admit that they miss you
..who knows that your not perfect, but treats you as if you are
..whose biggest fear is losing you
..who says i love you & means it
lastly, someone you wouldn't mind waking up with in the morning, seeing your wrinkles & gray hair but still falls in love with you all over again..

211. still bothered by what happened yesterday? sit down and relax.. no matter how bad yesterday was, it now belongs to the past.. don't let it worry or stop you from pursuing many possibilities TODAY.. today is a gift you can unwrap and share with all, that's why it's called PRESENT.. :)

212. Someone said, "i will love you forever.."

i just smiled and said.. "just warn me when forever starts to end"

213. Never get tired of doing little things for others. Sometimes those little things occupy the biggest part of their hearts..

214. Raindrops are the bravest things ever created by God.

Want to know why?

Because they are never afraid of falling..

215. people may destroy you image, stain your personality. but they can't take away your character. coz no matter what, you are admired by people who really know you!

216. Men are the scariest monsters made by God.. they are great liars, cheaters, too proud and they simply love too many. But when a man loves truly, he will lie at your arms, cheat death to be with you, he will forever be proud of you.. & love you in too many ways no one else can do.

217. she said: "i'm breaking up with you."

he said: "give me reason why."

she said: "i just don't love you anymore, sorry."

he said: "no, you shouldn't be sorry, coz that's what i'm planning since last month. thanks for making it easier for me..."

boy walked away & she finally said: "i thought you'll find my joke funny, baby" :(

218. how do you know you're happy again?

it is when you're alone yet you don't feel lonely or incomplete,
it is when you wake up every morning without any regret from yesterday..
& it is when you feel beautiful after every awful thing that happened.

219. "PROMISES mean EVERYTHING but once they're BROKEN.. SORRY means NOTHING."

220. as i woke up this morning, i realized that i should not regret any day of my life. good days give me happiness. bad days give me experiences. both are essential to life. i should keep going. happiness keep me SWEET. trials make me STRONG. sorrows keep me HUMAN. failures make me HUMBLE. success keeps me GLOWING but only God keeps me GOING..

221. You better discover what you want before you throw away everything you have trying to find it - Chuck Buss (Gossip Girl)

222. "its better to enjoy life committing MISTAKES and LEARN. rather than PLAYING SAFE in your entire life & learned NOTHING at all."

223. Self-Perspective:
As long as you laugh at your troubles, you may be sure you will never run out of something to laugh at.

224. i am wondering why is that Mr. Bean don't talk that much? Is he mute? But, see, even if he doesn't talk at all, he makes everyone laugh, right? And he never leaves his teddy behind.

MORAL: words aren't too important to show you care and make others happy, at least you know how to show it.

225. "according to the ancient, the engagement ring is place on the fourth finger of the left hand.. essence? because it has a vein leading directly to the heart.."

226. Trust is very important in any relationship. It allows us to enjoy a certain freedom without having to worry about jealousy and insecurity issues. It allows us to love without having to wrap our arms around someone all the time. Unfortunately, trust that is broken by infidelity is hard to earn back especially if you would keep asking why you were betrayed inspite of your faithfulness.

227. "it's the obsession on the feeling that you once had for a person that makes you wonder if you're still in love. when in fact, it's been long gone."

228. i love making other people smile, but sometimes, it gets too tiring that i just find myself looking for someone who could make me smile too.

229. "The only people that you need in your life are the ones who prove that they need you in theirs."

230. If you correct conceited people, you will be insulted. If you reprimand evil people, you will only get hurt. Never correct conceited people, they will hate you for it. But if you correct the wise, they will respect you. Anything you say to the wise will make you wiser. Whatever you tell the righteous will add to their knowledge. -Proverbs 9:7-9

231. ever had the feeling? u attempt and fight hard to take someone off your mind and off your life, but each time you try to forget, you fall in love deeper..??

232. "When you love someone, thinking about them is just like breathing.. You do it without thinking and you do it all the time"

233. i'll wait for that morning when my first thoughts are no longer for him. then i would realize that i had already let him go. it may not be the best sunrise, but i will go through the day knowing that my sunset will be better - for i know, i am no longer hurting..

234. "people say they love you at the right moments of their lives.. then disappear at the wrong moments of yours.. people do the sweetest things when their love is new, then one day, they just turn bitter & cold.. people fall in love and eventually, somehow, one day, they just ... fall out of it."

235. a girl is special, created by God. if you praise her, she thinks your lying. if you don't, you're good for nothing. if she talks, she wants you to listen. you listen, she wants you to talk. kiss her, you're not a gentleman. if you don't, you're not a man. if you agree to all her likes, you are a wimp. if you don't, you are not understanding. so simple yet so complex, so weird yet so beautiful. that's a girl. a non-understandable creature, in short..

"sakit ng ulo"

but makes a man complete.. ^^,

236. Life isn't easy, you have to be wrong to learn what is right.
Stumble to persevere.
Get hurt to be strong
Fall to rise again, lose to try harder.
But remember, you have God to face them all & me to lean on. .

237. sometimes, you have to let your heart lead you even if it's leading you to a place you never planned to be in..

238. "Love is a behavior not a feelings. It's the way somebody treats you everyday, all the time. Not just when they feel like it."

239. i won't waste my time caring about the people who don't like me - chances are i don't like them too..

i won't waste my time worrying if people are talking about me - i affect their lives, they didn't affect mine..

i waste my time with friends - those that accept me for being me..

if some people don't like me - it's because i'm not living my life their way..

i am always thankful for the few friends i have for they show me that in some way or another, real friends are still there & will be there..

-- THANKS!

240. "If you laugh really loud, talk really close & you don't care what your hair looks like, you're probably with a friend.."

241. "we barely notice it but we lose a piece of ourselves by being unhappy. and those little pieces are priceless because they can no longer be recovered once lost. we aren't living a true life if we don't live happy. there are lots of things to be happy about. it's just a matter of appreciation & knowing.."

242. You know the difference between somebody you LOVE & somebody you LIKE?

-if you look into the eyes of the one you LIKE, you blush but if you look into the eyes of the one you LOVE you smile..

-infront of the person you LIKE you tend to get shy, but infront of the person you LOVE you can show your own self..

-you can't look straight into the eyes of the one you LIKE but you can always smile into the eyes of the one you LOVE..

-when the one you LOVE is crying, you cry with them but when the one you LIKE is crying you end up comforting..

See the difference?!

243. "You'll never find anybody that achieves great success in life without a give-up story. Nothing comes free & there will come a time when you will find that you too will have to give up something good if you want something better.."

244. how hard is it to love someone who doesn't even care?

like this..

it's like you're hugging a cactus. you know it's alive but it wouldn't give you any reaction nor reply. & the tighter you hug it, the greater the pain that you feel.. :(

245. "You get into the biggest fights with the people you care about the most, because those are the relationships you are willing to fight for..."

246. in life, you're given certain chances, you have to make certain choices. a choice that may change your life, if given a chance, would you rather be..

WRONG but HAPPY?

or

RIGHT but SAD?

247. "You cannot care about everything and stay sane. You cannot care about nothing and stay human." - Katherne Whitehorn

248. no matter how bad your day becomes, it is so relieving that at its end, there is someone waiting for you to make everything alright..

249. Every relationship, even friendship, is bound to fall apart when you start keeping things. Secrets don't destroy everything. Suspicion does.

250. "wait till it rains. coz the weather can show the people who go and get their own umbrellas & those who stay with you under the rain.."

Kowts IV

151. I'm not really asking for much.
just someone
whose eyes i can stare at forever
who will snuggle to me in the cold of the night
& there find the warmth of her/his life
who will stay awake with me to see every sunset & sunrise
& swear whith her/his heart & soul that we are sharing the love our lifetimes..

152. isang araw pwedeng mawala ang pag-ibigan iningatan mo. lahat ng saya mauuwi na lang sa alaala. lahat ng pangarap hindi na matutupad, pero ganun talaga.
"hindi lahat ng hawak mo sayo na"

153. "maybe people need to be numb at times. it is like a defibrillator that shocks the heart to stop for a while. to give it a chance to beat again, alone .... on its own."

154. To lose weight is the number one all-time resolution which people make. Watch also the weight of your heart. Anxiety is the fat that burdens the soul.

155. no matter how many coins you throw into a fountain, or the number of fingers you cross... if it's not meant to be, it simply won't happen..

156. All the waters in the ocean could never sink a ship unless it gets inside. Likewise, all the pressures of life can never hurt you, unless you let it in..

157. you learn to like a person by knowing what makes him laugh but YOU only learn to love a person when you take the effort to know what makes him cry - Anonymous

158. Receptive Aphasia: inability to comprehend spoken language and may suggest damage to the Wernicke's Area.
e.g.
Boy: i love you
Girl: huh?!... :p

159. every relationship has its own story. it might be good or might be bad, might have happiness or more with sorrow. but you are the author.. you can end it up with tears or with smile.. just be a good writer..

160. "soulmates can never be found by grasping every hand you see and testing if your hands fit together. its that someone who stare back at you at the other side of life when you stare into space and lose consciousness of everything around you. then feeling a few seconds of what eternity means.."

161. if you're in doubt with what you feel, better not express it. otherwise, no one would take you seriously.
so if you're mad, be mad, or people might think you're fooling around.
if you're sad, be sade, or people might think you're just seeking attention.
if you're happy, forget about worries or people might thing you're pretentious.
if you're in love, mean it or else you won't get it back..

162. everyday i wish for someone to love and who will love me in return.
today, i'm gonna wish something else... the maturity to realize that if it wouldn't come.. i would still be fine..

163. Love is like a lost object. If you search too hard, you won't find it.
But if you just forget about it momentarily, it will show up in the most unexpected way..

164. Care is the sweetest form of LOVE. When someone say TAKE CARE, it really means that you will stay in their heart till its last beat..

165. ..in life, there are lots of people watching our next move, desperately waiting for us to fail and even praying for us to give up.. but don't mind them, it just doubles the fun of living and surviving.. let's keep in mind that failures and problems are not things we should be scared of. they could lead to breakthroughs and great discoveries. see life as an adventure and enjoy every moment of it!

166. "there's nothing scarier than getting what you really really want because then, you'd have something really really wonderful to lose.."

167. Love isn't about attraction, not about infatuation, not about lust, not about gifts and the length of time you spent together.

bottom line?

there's no reason at all

true love is having to wake up each day feeling so deeply inlove and overwhelmingly happy whenever this person is around you without even knowing why.

making you forget the past.. cherish the present..

and wishing the future would be spending the entirety of your lives together..

168. Things happen because we choose it. There may be regrets, but blaming is not an option. We are where we are because we brought ourselves there. We get happy, we get sad. But most importantly - we Learn.

169. avoiding someone has only 2 reasons:

either you hate that person...

or

you're still in love with that person

169. "Ironically, women have wonderful instincts about things.. They can discover everything, except the obvious" - Oscar Wilde

170. "When a woman buys a pair of shoes, she goes to 8 shops to compare style, color, fit and price. In each shop, she'll probably try a dozen pairs - holding it, touching it, smelling it, wearing it, walking it - before she actually buys the shoes. She also usually brings a friend or friends, always conferring and asking for comments. But when it comes to love, a woman will love the first jerk that will make her blush."

171. "There will come a point in your life when you'll get tired of chasing everyone, trying to fix everything. It's not giving up, its just a realization that you don't need all those you went after, because what you need are those who stood by you even if you never needed them."

172. "Never ever play with other people's feelings.. the world holds millions of things you can play with. A person's emotion is definitely not one of them"

173. its difficult to turn your back to someone whom you really wanna be with; to let someone feel neglected when in fact important; to show someone that you don't mind when in fact you care a lot; to avoid someone when you wanna take a stolen glance; to treat someone as an ordinary being when in fact really special... too hard to be in the same place with the people you used to be with yet you don't have a chance to have a word with them.. & laugh when you wanna cry your heart out.. too hard..

174. "moving on?

that's very easy..

just close your eyes..


sleep..


..and wish not to wake up anymore..

175. what's the hardest part of separating? not the feeling of letting go. not the part of good bye.. but going through every damn day, wishing it never happened..

176. Love is like the rain. It gently pours but sometimes its raging fast. But why is the rain so special? Coz like love its something you can feel, but something you can't stop!

177. not everything is meant to be..

but everything is worth a try..

178. if you can't have the best of what you want, learn to make the best of what you have. "a vision without action is a daydream; an action without a vision is a nightmare." happy people are those who don't have many things in life but they don't know how to make the best of the few things they have..

179. The Hebrew says: "Be very careful if you make a woman cry because God counts her tears. Every tear a woman shed is equivalent of man's sacrifices in life. The woman came from a man's rib, not on his feet to be stepped on; not on his head to superior, but on his side to be equal. Under his arms to be protected and near his heart to be loved..

180. every girl thinks catching a guy's heart is a great accomplishment, actually, catching the guy's heart is the easy part.. keeping him faithful is the real accomplishment.

181. QUOTE: "if we're not meant to be... so what? make a mistake with me." :p

182. NEVER let someone hurt you twice. Giving him a second chance is exposing yourself to be hurt again. If he had done it once, it's bound to happen again. Why? Coz you gave him the idea that no matter how much he'll hurt you, you'd still accept him all over again, giving him the power to hurt you again. Once is enough to learn..

183. sooner or later, start taking yourself seriously. know when you need a break, know what to get worked up and about & what to get rid of. do something that makes you stronger & more complete. because it's never too late to have a life. & never too late to change one..

184. It's really hard to wait for the person in your life especially when the wrong ones are so yummy and hot! :p

185. its hard to LOVE someone who can never be yours. time would give you chances to talk, chances to be together, chances to share.. see how it hurts?! u only have chances ... just chances.. :(

186. The vow is simple, really.

Those who take it promise to stay together for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness & in health, to honor & to cherish, forsaking all others until death do us part.

Yes, the vow is simple.

Finding someone worthy of such a promise is the hard part.

187. When does being happy becomes scary?

When your happiness could mean a heartbreak for somebody else..

188. there two greatest days in your life..
the day you were born &
the day you discovered who you're born for..

189. Never explain yourself to anyone.

Bcoz..

The person who LIKES you doesn't need it..

&

The person who DISlikes you won't believe it.

190. people have different outlooks on love. but whatever those are, there's only a single truth behind everyone's heartache: 'Love hurts when God knows we deserve someone else..'

191. The father of a girl asked his daughter's boyfriend..

"what can you do for my daughter?"

"i would die for her!" the boyfriend answered.

"i don't like you" the dad replied

"why?!" said the boyfriend

the dad answered...

"i'm looking for someone who would live for her.. not someone who would just die & leave her alone"

192. Life is never without a problem, never without difficulty, never without hurtful moments, but never without good friends to lighten all the NEVERS!

193. nung nawala siya sa buhay ko, kala ko okay lang. kala ko isang tulugan lang mawawala na siya sa isip ko. pero mali yata ako.. kasi nun nawala siya, pagtulog ang nakalimutan ko.. tsk, tsk..

194. "sometimes you just have to put a period on something that has to end, and not just settle on a comma, you'll realize that it's nicer to see a complete sentence, rather than seeing a phrase that's completely hanging and doesn't even make any sense"

195. This must be the most difficult & painful situation any girl would be put in:

"I am just the girl he loves..

but not the girl he's committed to.."

196. All that a girl needs is a guy, just one guy,..

"who would be man enough to prove to her that not all men are the same."

197. if you have forgiven a CHEATING MAN a couple of times, they are more than likely going to CHEAT AGAIN. because they already know that if they plead enough, you will forgive them

198. "people say that bad memories cause the most pain, but actually, it's the good ones that drive us insane.."

199. A big jar full of water gets emptied by just a small hole..

Meaning?

A single pain could drain all the happiness of a loving heart.

200. "sometimes, we need to forget about the people from our past.. cause there must have been a good reason why they didn't make it to our future"

Kowts III

101. love takes effort and acceptance. it won't always be a happy ride; you'll cry when you're hurt, you'll be sad when you're ignored. but hold on & always remember.. LOVE HURTS when its REAL..

102. when i fall in love, i never regret what i did. its not a matter of finding the right person but its a matter of "being the right person for the one i choose to love.."

103. they say when you love someone, you need to give your trust and understand the person. but tell me: how long could i stand someone who never explains..

104. you will never realize how much you care about a person until.. the thought of them being with someone else is enough to break your heart..

105. "my life's worst scenario"
it's when people assume that they know me even without trying to get to know me & they judge me from my actions without knowing the reason behind it..

106. its not wrong to give it all when you love.
its not wrong to love a person so much.
sometimes the only wrong thing is...
exactly the person you love

107. the way u deal w/ ur struggles depends on how u view them. always remember: THERE ARE NO HOPELESS SITUATION only people who think hopelessly!

108. find love when u have time, and find time when you already found the one to love

109. never say that someone completes you. we have to feel whole even we are by ourselves. for needing a certain someone is not love but dependency. wanting a person to become a part of our life is the best reason for having them. and you can only want when you know you have enough. so rather than search for that someone who will complete you, wait for the person who will compliment your completeness...

110. "don't wait for the right person to come into ur life.
be the right person to come to someone's life."
when it comes to love, we are often told to wait for that special person to come in our lives. we forget that we too can be that special someone for someone else's.

111. failed love affairs:
its weird how you go from being strangers to being friends to being more than friends then suddenly... back to being practically strangers again..

112. "nothing shapes your life more than the commitments you choose to make. they can develop you or destroy you, but either way they will help define you."

113. two of the hardest tests in life:
- the patience to wait for the right moment
- and the courage to accept that you've waited for nothing..

114. i love you!
salitang madaling bitiwan pero mahirap panindigan,
masarap paniwalaan pero mahirap asahan,
higit sa lahat, nagdala ng sobrang kaligayahan
kahit minsan walang katotohanan..

115. why can't we get everything we want?
like, i really like love this guy
i did everything but still,
i can;t have him
& he?
he did nothing
but guess what?
he still have me...

116. life is a littile too ironic.
we want things to change but once they do, we wonder why things cannot go back to the way they were.

117. those who are bitter are STRONGER individuals. wanna know WHY? because STRONG people know how to control their emotions & BITTER people know when to realize that its ENOUGH and it's OVER. BITTERNESS is not totally a negative things. it's just a way of showing to others that in life, there is no such thing as 'i still love you but i don't want you anymore..'

118. its the silence that tells it all.
sometimes its not about the yelling and the tears. all it takes is for two people to site beside each other and feel that something is wrong, that what was there before isn't there anymore,, that they're miserable when they're apart but they're worse when they're together.. and that there are only two options left..

either they sit still and ignore the pain,

or one of them gathers enough courage to leave..

119. Loveless? just wait. sooner or later there will be someone you will call you prince or princess.

Brokenhearted? that's the cycle of loving. everyone needs to pass the stage of healing.

Single? no attachment; no commitments; no pains. but its sad to be alone..

In Love? just continue loving. who knows someday the one you have right bow is the one whom you will spend your whole life with..

120. it's not easy to state a reason why you have hurt someone you love. some will blame you. some might even be mad at you.

what they don't see is the fact that it hurts you even more to hurt someone who doesn't deserve to be hurt..

121. after you stand, try to sit. when you are tired, just rest. try to do this in love. don't insist if it is not for you. i can't beart the pain, try to quit.. find somebody who will love you. and, if you can't find, try to wait. love will last when you know how to the opposite of what it asks..

122. closeness doesn't come when you're together. it comes when you're apart & you realize that despite not seeing, you never stop remembering..

123. sometimes we regret words we said or left unsaid. we are sorry for that had bitter endings. for chances we threw away. for choices we should not have made. for signs we ignored, people we hurt and wounds inflicted on them. the past can't be rewritten, but it can teach lessons. be thankful for every challence life has thrown at you. for every heartbreak. for every scar. some pages were turned. some bridges were burned. hopefull the lessons you learned made you a better person..

124. loving someone who can't love you back, is like being comatosed in a hospital. comfortably lying but unconsciously bleeding,.. softly sleeping but silently hurting and continuously breathing yet, slowly dying..

125. "panahon.. mahaba un, dba? pero bakit un oras mabilis? dko magets e! bakit oras lang binigay niya para mahalin ako at panahon naman itong binigay para malimot ko siya?"

126. how i wish that LOVE is like death - permanent, comes only once in a life time & goes on peacefully without pain..

127. its fun being a strong person. you feel invincible, like you can face anything that comes your way. but you know what sucks being one? it's when people know that you're strong and they think its okay to hurt you..

128. .. what if your in love with someone who doesn't love you? while someone you don't love is loving you? then one day you learned to love the one who loves you but then, the one you love is already falling for you.. what would you do?..

129. what's unconditional Love?
its when the person you love tears you into pieces and yet you still smile & say..
"you don't have to love me back.. 'i'll be okay'"

130. Love is like a rubix cube. there are innumerable wrong twist & turns. but when you get it right, it looks perfect no matter which side you look at..

131. "the most regret we can have in life is not for the wrong things we did, but for the right things we could have done, but never did.."

132. someday, a past love will come back to you & will say:

"i stil love you.."

& you'll smile & say..

"i know but i just don't care anymore.."

133. i don;t want the moon & d stars.. i just want somebody who will watch them with me..

134. don't let someone miss you that much because you might never know, how you're giving them reasons to forget you..

135. "it's easier to be happy if you can look beyond perfections than seeking happiness by trying too hard to make everything perfect."

136. words and love should be handled with care. for words when spoken & and love when broken are the hardest things to repair..

137. everytume i hear people say, "what a small world." i kept on wondering.. if the world is small, why is it that most of us hasn't found what makes us really happy..?

138. the best feeling in the world comes when you start feeling good again after feeling awful for a long time..

139. "..just when everything is falling apart, look again.. maybe, just maybe, .. things are actually falling into their rightful place.."

140. "a broken heart doesn't need someone who's willing to make it whole again. rather it needs someone who can make it realize that it never really got broken at all.."

+ always listen to what a drunk person has to say..

REMEMBER: a drunk mind speaks a sober HEART..

141. a perfect partner in life is someone you can be with & talk about anything without realizing that the day was over. someone who will always listen & feel twice the joy or pain you're going thru. when you start to feel that "connection", never let it go. coz there is more to companionship than to love only. because in the end, when all else fails & are consumed, you will always hold on to those times you don't even need to hear the words "i love you..."

142. ..the person you love the most has the best capacity to make you the happiest person in the world and may give you the worst heartached you can ever imagine. so if you hold back or give it your all, that's a choice you have to make. its damn if you and damn if dont't..

143. Learn .. that when you plan to get even with someone, you're only letting that person continue to hurt you
Learn.. that ignoring the facts do not change the facts
Learn .. that the easiest way to grown as a person is to surround yourself with people smarted than you are
Learn .. that no one is perfect untill you fall in love with them
And Learn.. that life is tough, but you can be tougher..

144. most people believe that if they were going to hide their feelings for someone. it will fade awaya and vanish. they always think that PRETENTION is the only solution. but let me tell you this.. the more you hide your feelings for someone the more you fall for them..

145. "don't be hurt if you fail to have the love that you've always wanted. there will always be instances that will test how far will you go for the one most important to you. if it doesn't work, nor create even the slightest spark, not a problem, its reality... it happens"

146. "Sometimes you have to test someone. not because you don't trust them, but to see how much they'll sacrifice for you. and sometimes you have to let them go not because you suddenly stopped loving them, but to see if they love you enough to come back.."

147. not all people thats good to you are true to you as well. so learn to weigh things. be vigilant enough to secure whats yours. provide boundary to your conversations. you'll never know when a pretending good person turns into a deceitful asshole/bitch.

148. sometimes, i want to let the hands of the clock be stopped everytime i am happy. i wanna hide the hour glass just to make myself believe that moments would not end. but i never di such, for i realized, there are also those who wanted the hands of the clock move. for every strike of it would mean a little recovery from pains for those who had bad memories in the past & wishes that the hands of the clock will tick faster..

149. isn't it sad that in our lives we have to say goodbye to those we love and care about for some reason we can't barely explain.. no matter how you try to save the good old times it wouldn't work, the only right thing left to do is to break away & let go to prove them just how much paon you're willing to take in order to make things better..

150. When a person is really, really into you, that person will always find a way to make time for you - NO EXCUSES.

Rants and Raves. . . .i feel.. just feel..

so.. i have a weird feeling. something's aint right..

i pretend not to like someone. yet i can't seem to get him off my system. help? .. i feel down, pero i dunno why nor even know the reason behind. i am craving for my comfort foods.. and i feel the need to splurge.

i pretend to feel numb. but actually, MASAKIT na. and i'm really hurt. nalilito nako. i dunno what to do or ANO BA TALAGa!

hayyy,...

i feel like talking to someone for countless of hours.
i feel like eating sashimi - salmon, tuna and etc..
i feel like goin to long, long drives & wish never to come back..
i feel like going back to Cebu.
i feel like writing poems
i feel empty.
pretend to be numb
but actually hurting deep inside.

Kowts II

051. falling in love is never a decision = always a chance.
staying in love is never a chance = always by choice.
& falling out of love is never a choice = always a decision. 04.Sept.07 zerylle

052. we have to realize that love's not enough to make a relationship work - we need trust, respect, time time, effort & total commitment.. if a person doesn't show respect, doesn't earn your trust,& can't keep a promise then no matter how many times they say "i love you" those words will be empty.. take time to listen to what they don't say, take time to look at what they don't show. coz there are secrets hidden beneath their words.. so don't let passion but wisdom decide for you. love wisely coz its never easy to love & get hurt... 13.Sept.07 daynie

053. the person you love the most has the best capacity to make you the happiest person in the world. and the worst heartache you can ever imagine.

054. if you love someone, never ask any opinion from others because it might get wrong. just follow your heart for its better to fall from your happiness, than to fall from anyone's advice..

055. "the only true painful goodbyes.. are the ones that are never said and never explained.." 10.Oct.07 zerylle

056. it's easy to say good bye but too hard to forget. why? because love is more than words can say. once you've fallen, you can't help but fall over and over again.. so even if good byes have been said, there's something in the heart that says, "please stay..." why? becz it's LOVE and the reason is UNKNOWN. despite the pain and the heartaches.. LOVE will always retain its pride, its sweetness, its MYSTERY..

057. "it's hard to wait around for something that you know will never happen.. but it's also hard to stop when you know it's everything you've always wanted.." 05.Nov.07 jop

058. love not too much, but real. prepare to get hurt, but don't complain. love is not being happy all the time, feel free to cry for awhile, but love like you've never lost your smile. 06.Nov.07 annica

059. people say i'm strong because i'm numb to any pain. actually, its my special technique. what they don't know is that i had to break my heart a million times just to master it..

060. what really matters in picking your chocolate is not the sweetness, but its capability of making u happy no matter how bitter it could sometimes get. you can always crave for any, but there will always be that special chocolate that's enough for you to forget the rest. a lot like love.. 10.Nov.07 jane

061. short, sweet and practical principle in love: "if it works, then it works.. if it doesn't, then move on" 11.Nov.07 zerylle

062. what makes us fool?
is when it hurts seeing the one u love with somebody still, you keep on staring... 17.Nov.07 em

063. letting go is like getting a tooth pulled out by a dentist. pull it out, you're relieved. but how many time does your tongue run itself over the spot where the tooth once was? probably a hundred times a day. just because its not hurting you doesn't mean u don't notice it. it leaves a gap & sometimes you see yourself missing it terribly. its goin to take awhile, but it takes time. should you have kept the tooth? no, coz ut was causing you so much pain that's why you had to let go.. 24.Nov.07 jop

064. its easy to play with LOVE
easy to hurt the feelings of others
easy to let cry the person who loves you
BUT
its difficult to find a person who really loves you!

065. ever had the feeling?
you attempt and fight so hard to take someone off your mind & off your life. but each time you think how to forget..
you keep on falling much more.. 27.Nov.07 jop

066. have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too much to handle?
we tell lies when we are afraid. afraid of what we know, what others will thing, what will be found out about us. but every time we tell a lie, the thing we fear grows stronger.
life is all about taking risks and it requires you to jump.
don't be a person who has to look back and wonder what they would have or could have had.

067. READ & LEARN:
-Don't spend your lifetime loving a person if you have no plans telling how you feel .. it's SELFISH!
-Love can never be so beautiful without FRIENDSHIP..
-the best of Lovers are the BEST OF FRIENDS.
-Empty is the life that's filled with nothing but THINGS
-if you're enemy is hungry, feed him, if he's thirsty, give him a drink. ul make him burn in shame!
-telling the TRUTH & making someone cry is BETTER than telling a LIE & making someone smile..

068. someone asked me once "would u have still tried even if you knew that it wouldn't work?"

i said: "its like this. championship game. 2 seconds left on the clock. my team is down by 1. i have the ball and i'm open for a jump shot. should i take the shot or not? if i make it, we win & celebrate. if i don't, we lose & we go home crying. i guess i'll still take that shot. & in case i miss the shot, i'd still cry. but it feels a lot less painful knowing that at least i tried."

069. have you felt this feeling: may mahal kana, pero na.develop ka pa sa iba?! hirap, noh? sino bang dapat? un matagal mo ng mahal, o un taong unti-unti mo ng minamahal?!..

070. there's no such person as INSENSITIVE..
"it's just that there are people who DON't WANT TO HURT, don't want to be hurt or pretend they're not hurt..."

071. it's easy to love some who simply makes u smile, talk and stares at you. the only hard thing about that is how to make that person fall for you..

072. "you know sometimes, in order to protect someone we love, 'we keep secrets'" - Clark Kent, Smallville

073. "anyone can make you happy by doing something special but only someone special can make you happy without doing anything.."

074. heart to heart talks
hands together
leaning on shouldaers
tight hugs
goodbye kisses
half meant jokes
sweet compliments
mixed signals
uncertain feelings
unsaid emotions.
---JUST FRIENDS

075. life is at its weakiest when there is more doubt than trust. but life is at its strongest when you learn how to trust inspite of all the doubts..

076. love isn't just the about the words but the meaning behind it.
it's not just "you can trust me" but "i'll never make you doubt"
not just "don't do this" but "let me do it for u"
not just "take care" but "let me hold ur hand"
not just "don't go there" but "let me go with you"
not just "i'm sorry" but "i'll never hurt u again"
not just "i'm here" but "i'll never leave you"
not just "don'y worry" but "i'll never give you a reason to"
not just "i love you" but life has no meaning "without you"

077. a guy who loves you can't actually state the reason why he does. he only knows your the only thing that matters, next to his family.

a guy who loves you, worries a lot when can't hear a word from you even after he just dropped you home. only coz he cares.

a guy who loves you apologizes non-stop even if he knows you wrong, he just wants you to be happy.

a guy who loves you, when he understand what's best for the both of you

a guy truly loves you when after you hurt him, deep inside he still hopes for a future with you..

078. it's like once i've been hurt, i'm so scared to get attached again.. like i have a fear that every person i'll start to like is going to break my heart..

079. when something is over, it can never start again. when it's broken, you can never put back the pieces. life is not the way you want it to be. when you know that someone is hurting you so much, just stop. we know that it hurts a lot, but you must learn to let go. don't push yourself too hard, coz we all know that in every ending, theres such thing that we call beginning.

080. "i retrieved broken promises among the shattered pieces of glass, each sharp end pricked my soul as tears & blood flowed down to the ground, forming muddy mirrors i saw what could have been, what should have been & what must have been. i traced back the past only to find the one that i have lost in the beginning.." - Broken

081. it's hard to run from a feeling that haunts you every now and then. it's painful to tell your heart that you don't need it. you keep on pretending that you are better to be alone, when in fact you feel so empty... but why take chances if you see no hope? why try if there's nothing to win for? sometimes, it pays to wait. never hurry. let infatuation die a natural death & give birth to true love when its time..

082. when i was in grade school, they told me to write down what i wanted to be when i grow up.. i wrote down "happy" they told me i didn't understand the assignment. i told them they didn't understand life.

"it's easy to get something by means of hard working.. but it does not necessarily mean that you'll find happiness on it..

083. A BITTER THOUGHT:
.. if someone lied to you, it always ends with two conclusions.. its either..
it was for your own good or
YOU WEREN'T GOOD ENOUGH TO HEAR THE TRUTH..

084. a wasted moment can make you regret so bad.
a single mistake can change your whole life.
from then, you'll see how the little things you ignore meant everything when they're gone..

085. it's a mystery why people still fall in love after a heartbreak and risk getting rejected and hurt all over again. i guess is the dream of finding true love or simply because life is happier when you're in love..

086. one cannot question the existence of feelings. they are there - raw and undeniable. but one can choose not to nurture what is really felt. yet no matter what they say, what has been felt will always be more honest than what was chosen. hence, true realties are not built by the mind but by the heart..

087. to be loved is to live in someone's heart. don't hold something in your arms that you're not willing to hold in your heart.

088. "what if you waited for you special someone your whole life and later on learn that no one is waiting for you? true love is worth taking chances for. sometimes, you don't know why things work out, they just do." - the LakeHouse

089. its sad when people you know become people you knew. when you walk right past someone like they were never a big part of your life. how you used to be able to talk for hours & now you can barely even look at them..

090. sometimes you feel you're done waiting & holding on. but its amazing how feelings are gone one moment, & later renewed by a simple song that reminds you of his voice. the way he makes you smile and you're completely clueless why. the way you look away once you realize his staring back at you. & then d hurt comes back all over again & again..

091. when you don't feel good right now, try sitting down and think of the things that made u feel bad but u must accept that there are so many things beyond your control, try not to be affected, just smile & think of good things. remember, being happy has always been a matter of choice.

092. "when i speak about love - its really love. if you don't believe me, its not my problem anymore"

093. "if only i knew that i would be misjudged, i should have keep this love to myself and never let it shown"

094. absence makes the heart go fonder.
'i don't think so'
absense may trigger your feelings for someone. too much absence may lead to forgetting a person..
'i tried.. i experienced.. & i failed'

095. you cannot be the best for me if you cannot accept my worst

096. when you love, you need to take risks, even if it takes you a lifetime

097. when you can't remember why you're hurt, that's the time you're already healed.

098. if you look inside a broken heart and see how much it cries, you'll find secrets, promises and lies. but what you'll see the most is how hard it tries to stay strong when nothing's right and everything is wrong..

099. pretending to be friends with the one you love is like breathing underwater. you can't hold it too long coz if you do, you won't make it out alive..

100. if theres one thing i've learned from falling inlove - is to stand up no matter how painful the cuts; to fight for what i believe in; and to wait.. because even if i think now is the right time to give extra effort - waiting is even more worth it. especially if i love that person so much..