Kowts XXV

701. You can only push someone away for so long, until they walk out of your life on their own. So be careful and make sure this is what you want, because once they turn around they are not coming back.


702. We always look at our scars as ugly marks. But, sometimes, we should try to consider it as a nice thing. A symbol that something painful in the past is, somehow, trying to heal.


703. Love waits for one thing, the right moment.


704. All things in life are temporary. If they're going well, enjoy. If they go wrong, don't worry. . they can't last long either! What is nice about life is that each day is never like the other. Life is beautiful, enjoy it and throw all your troubles away!


705. I realized how it works. Just by sitting, doing nothing in that sense, she/he still attracts him/her. I guess that's just the way love really works.


706. "By presumptuousness only one causes a struggle, but with those consulting together there is wisdom." - Proverbs 13:10
1. Adjustments were vital
2. Not single anymore, keep friendship & family in the right place
3. "Thing plural" - consult with a partner before accepting an invitation
4. Take into consideration mutual interests, be yielding
- 10.27.2009 Moki


707. When the last tree is cut, the last fish is caught and the last river is polluted. Only then will man realize that he cannot eat, his money


708. "Distancing: have only two reasons: either you HATE that person or you're way too scared that you might FALL completely in love with that person again.


709. It's not the sugar that makes the coffee sweet, but the stirring you do after adding a sugar. What you do with what you have makes the difference.


710. Risks co-exist with opportunities, if you don't go after what you want, somebody else will. If you don't ask, then you'll never know. If you don't step forward, you will always be in the same place. Only those who are brave enough to take risks can tell how far they can go.


711. If we need to look regularly in a mirror to ensure that our appearance is acceptable, how much more so must we read God's Word the Bible, on a regular basis? - Joshua 1:8


712. I might be single now, but who knows? 
The next day,
Next month,
Next year.. nothing has changed. 
I'M STILL SINGLE.


713. It's never good to pin yourself on someone else. You must realize that you were born alone and that you are going to die alone. No matter how much someone loves you, he/she won't die with you. One big less to engrave onto your mind is this: 'Learn to say goodbye to someone who has said goodbye to you..'


714. No one will manufacture a lock without a key. Similarly, God won't give us problem without solutions: I hope, you can find the right key, every time you encounter your door locked.


715. One day, the girl asked her boy why he always forget their anniversary. His reply was short but SWEET. "What is one day compared to you being mine everyday?" ^^


716. "If any of you is lacking in wisdom, let him keep on asking God, for he gives generously to all." - James 1:5
Difficult Situations:
1. Discouragement
2. Growing weary of sacred service
3. Wishing a more 'normal' life
4. Need to make difficult decisions
..in times like this, we may ask our heavenly Father to help us and give us the holy spirit to make wise decisions.


717. There is one thing everybody wants to feel: 
To be LOVED without begging for it..


718. Always be humble. For when you choose the lowest path, there is no place to fall and the only way is up.


719. he can make me happy but there's this one man who brings out the real happiness in me

720. i just want to be someone you run to but i don't want you to abuse the goodness i offered to you..


721. Serious relationship is not something anyone should really be actively looking for. Because sometimes, the best relationships happen by accident.


722. There will always be that first love that you'll try to forget, yet you compare all your other relationships to it.


723. Life is like surviving in a forest, where you can be lost, in a dead end, you could die, OR you could survive.


724. I never stopped loving you, I just stopped showing it.


725. a MAN…. no matter how loyal, kind, patient,understanding, sweet, honest, loving, thoughtful and close to perfect as he appears to be, …..will still hurt a girl in the most painful way he could..


726. forgiveness is like setting free a prisoner, then later on you'll find out that the prisoner was you


727. "i did not want time to heal anything. all i wanted was for my heart to be healed by his love...and not by time." 


728. Some people are plain fools, some are really stupid. When you love someone who doesn’t love you back desperately, you are a fool. If you don’t have any idea that somewhere, somebody loves you, you’re stupid. Admittedly, I know I’m a fool. I just hope that you aren’t stupid.


729. Waiting for someone you love is never easy. It may even be irrelevant especially if the one you love isn’t aware that you’re waiting…


730. Would you rather know or not know? Some say that what you don’t know won’t hurt you. But what if you know that you don’t know something? Won’t that hurt too?


731. People get hurt when they fall in love so what’s the fuss about? It’s just love. Sometimes, I’m hurt when I see a couple happy because I remember the days I was happy with him. Well, they say that’s life. People come and go but the truth is they never go. They are still locked up inside of you and no matter how hard you get it out of you the more it hurts knowing that you yourself don’t want to let it out. Why is it so damn hard to forget while it is so damn easy to fall?


732. I saw him and I silently pleaded for a smile yet he looked away not knowing he broke my heart just then such simple thought, such simple wishes yet nothing seemed to come true. I’m sorry, I wasn’t thinking. Someday I’ll be the one to look away. He needs not to do it for me.


733. I don’t have any sleeping problem. I have no worries, no fears, nothing just my self. But when I met a couple this morning laughing together, holding their hands tightly and looking thru each other’s eyes it is harder for me to sleep now. Maybe they are right. I thought I’m better off alone. Maybe it would be nicer to spend your time with someone that you love, someone that means something to you. Maybe I will try it, not for now but soon, soon enough when I have found someone to share my life with.

- A single’s journal

734. Every once in a while an unbelievable sadness comes over me and breaks my heart all over again and it’s not because of the way things are but because of the way they could have been.


735. no one in my life have i met a girl like you..
you are special person who has given me a meaning
of living..now i know why im here...

to love you...

736.  its hard to be contented, knowing that you really miss someone.


737. I don't know why I'm afraid to lose you when you're not even mine. I don't know why I love you when you don't even love me. I don't know why you're THE ONE when I'm just a SOMEONE.


738. Akala ko ba kaibigan kita, 
pero bakit ka ganyan.
bakit kailangan mo pa akong pahirapan..
Ang kaibigan, gumagawa ng paraan para magtulungan.
Bakit di mo na lang ako mahalin at tulungan sumaya?
kung di mo kaya, please, tulungan mo na lang ako kalimutan ka.

739. I want to give you my everything, but please show me that I mean something


740. it hurts when someone prioritizes you yesterday, yet made you feel the LEAST thing today


741. "a simple sign of stupidity.. is when you told everyone that you've moved on but when you hold a pen... you still find yourself writing his name.." 


742. Which way are you gonna take?
The left one where there's nothing right?
Or the right one where there's nothing left?
... something to think about

743. Girl: I wanna end our relationship and I'm going to return everything that you gave me.
Boy: Okay then. Let's start with the kiss.

744. i never wanted someone to love me
for a lifetime.
but instead, i only want someone
who'll desperately LOVE ME and ONLY ME
while HE'S MINE

745. When I was still a little girl, I couldn't have that special toy, right now I couldn't have that special boy.


746. A woman can still love a man even if she already understands that he won't love her back


747. I TRUST YOU is a better compliment
than i love you coz you may not
always TRUST the person you love
but believe me, you will always
LOVE the person you trust for
the rest of your life

748. Of all forms of goodbyes, the kind that hurts the most is the one your ears will never hear but your heart knows it is already being said.


749. Imagine that relationships are PERFECT..no fights, no tears, no arguments and misunderstandings..DREAM COME TRUE right? But without these..there would be no sorry hugs and kisses..no saying of the sweetest words..no reason to stay..no growth of faith in both of you..NOW, how would you want it?


750. "Sobrang masaya na ako kapag kausap ko xa
kahit ang topic nmen ay SIYA"

Kowts XXIV

651. Sometimes it is better to be alone, because you are more assured that no one would hurt you.

652. We spend our lives telling ourselves that everything happens for a reason when in reality; it is just that we give reasons for everything that happen.

653. It's really hard to decide when you're too tired to hold on, but you're too in love to let go

654. I'm not afraid to try again. I'm just afraid of getting hurt for the same reason.

655. I thought a broken heart was the worst feeling possible, but I was wrong.Regrets are sitting right before it.

656. We never really have move on, all you can do is find someone else to think about.

657. Never let go of anyone that you couldn’t go a day without thinking about. There just might be a very good reason why they’re always on your mind. Sometimes it’s the brain that knows too well what the heart tries so hard to deny.

658. And now here is my secret, a very simple secret; it is only with the heart that one can see rightly, what is essential is invisible to the eye. 
-- Antoine de Saint-Exupery

659. At the touch of love everyone becomes a poet...
-- Plato

660. You cannot love and hold yourself back from its full force. Love is about placing that bet, taking the risk and letting go of fear. Love is dangerous for it will always ask you to jump the chasm with your eyes closed with nothing but to trust to break your fall.

661.  I'm not supposed to love you, I'm not supposed to care, I'm not supposed to live my life wishing you were there. I'm not supposed to wonder where you are or what you do...I'm sorry I can't help myself, I'm in love with you.

662. Love grows by giving. The love we give away is the only love we keep. The only way to retain love is to give it away.
-- Elbert Hubbard

663. Love is taking a few steps backward (maybe even more)...to give way to the happiness of the person you love. 

664. laughing isn't something
you do for fun. it is sometimes
a relief when you badly misses
someone. or an instant
escape when you're hurting
...too much.

665. The heart probably has more patience than any other organ in our body. It has the patience to wait for that one person it knows is worth beating for. It even has the patience to wait for something it knows may never even come. But like all things, its patience runs out. And our hearts ...break because other people forget...... that like all things that feel hurt, pain and sadness.. The heart gets tired too...

666. It's hard to determine whether someone really have a feeling for you.. 
or they are just carried away by the good things that you are doing for 
that person.. and you can not tell if they are returning love, or just 
returning the favor...

667. A proof that experience is of no use, is that the end of one love does not prevent us from beginning another.----- Paul Bourget

668. he was the one who said goodbye,
he was the one who looked away,
but i realized,
i never said a word to make him stay

669. Dear Time,
Please go a little slower whenever I’m with him, because I don’t know when that moment will ever happen again in my life.
Hoping for time to be slower whenever with him,
Me 

670. Dear Earth,
Could you please do a gravitational pull so strong that he can fall for me?
Hoping for it to happen now,
Me. 

671. FRIENDS are my secret of having a great and happy life


672. Serious relationship is not something anyone should really be actively looking for. Because sometimes, the best relationships happen by accident.


673. "Relationships--of all kinds--are like sand held in your hand. Held loosely, with an open hand, the sand remains where it is. The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers. You may hold onto some of it, but most will be spilled. A relationship is like that. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact. But hold too tightly, too possessively, and the relationship slips away and is lost."
-Kaleel Jamison



674. no matter how many times you shout that you are hurt, the pain won't heal if from the start, you don't want to be cured


675. Sometimes giving someone space is just not the best way to make things better, sometimes you have to sort things out before one learns to live with out you


676. How can I choose between the "present" that "makes me remember the past" and the "past" that "reminds me that there IS a present"


677. I'd rather be your friend forever than to be your ex-girlfriend in the future


678. It's easy to raise a white flag. But it's never easy to raise one if you know that it's still worth fighting for


679. I wanna go back in time, and erase all our memories and maybe, just maybe, things would have been better..


680. " I've come to you not to make you love me, but rather to make you realize that your worth loving.."


681. i saw my friends cry and get hurt because of broken relationships. i always told them that being sad about it will do nothing good. its best to move on, be happy and try not to get affected. now, im in that situation. im sad and hurt because of a broken relationship. and i realized that my advice was easier said than done. nothing is more difficult than coping with a love long lost and gone.


682. ..no one can blame me for loving someone in a short span of time.. for just like every girl.. i am longing for someone who can treat me right, someone who can take good care of me.. and someone who can love me for who i am..


683. Sometimes we thought that falling in love is the greatest gift of all.
But sometimes we cannot manage it that we even hurt our feelings.
We even forget our priorities. All we know is about our special someone.
But how about the people who loves us more than your someone loves you.
We should manage everything around us. Not just the people you think
you really value.

684. The worst part about thinking that the person you like doesn't like you back is finding out that you were right.


685. Don’t waste your time worrying about boys. Boys will come and go. Don’t waste your time caring about the people don’t like you. Chances are you don’t like them either. Don’t waste your time worrying if people are talking about people. You affected their lives; they didn’t affect yours. Waste your time with your friends. Live for the moment, laugh often. Be immature, do anything and everything. If it’s something you’ll regret in the morning, sleep late and when you wake up, laugh about it with your friends because your friends are what matter most. When you have your friends, you have everything.


686.  Wounds will not heal if you urgently put band aid on it. Sometimes you just have to let it bleed; give it some space for healing. And when you think your wounds are already cleansed, that’s the time you can use a band aid for it. Remember: The more you cover yourself from pain, the more infected you are.


687. Second chances. Girls take more of them then guys do. Why? I blame Disney, building up these false hopes, making me believe I can have my prince charming. We believe that one day we’re going to be saved, that one day, one boy is going to come & change our whole lives around in the most perfect way. In the movies there`s no ‘other woman’, there`s no deception. 1793. There`s just a happy ending, conditions & circumstances don`t apply. So what are we to do when our hearts get broken? The logical thing to do is move on, of course, but despite all the lying, the cheating, the crushed dreams, & the painful memories, there`s a speck of hope. A little, itty bit piece of our hearts that`s begging for the fairy tale, screaming that we let him try again. So we do. we cry & bite our tongues, hoping that this liar in aluminum foil will finally become our knight in shining armor hoping that this time he`ll be able to make us feel safe, & actually do it. That`s why we break so easily; cause our fairy tale dreams are placed on real life boys. Boys who need to be saved themselves.

689. No school book will ever teach you how to love yourself, no teacher will ever tell you how to heal, & no class can help you learn how to brush yourself off & try again.


690. When we fall in love, we, with all our hearts and souls, want the people we’re in love with to fall in love with us too. We want the feeling to be fair and mutual


700. If you really love a person, you are willing to wait even how long it takes. You are willing to bare all the pain that waits, want to know why? Simply because forever is not a very long time for a person that deeply loves