Kowts II

051. falling in love is never a decision = always a chance.
staying in love is never a chance = always by choice.
& falling out of love is never a choice = always a decision. 04.Sept.07 zerylle

052. we have to realize that love's not enough to make a relationship work - we need trust, respect, time time, effort & total commitment.. if a person doesn't show respect, doesn't earn your trust,& can't keep a promise then no matter how many times they say "i love you" those words will be empty.. take time to listen to what they don't say, take time to look at what they don't show. coz there are secrets hidden beneath their words.. so don't let passion but wisdom decide for you. love wisely coz its never easy to love & get hurt... 13.Sept.07 daynie

053. the person you love the most has the best capacity to make you the happiest person in the world. and the worst heartache you can ever imagine.

054. if you love someone, never ask any opinion from others because it might get wrong. just follow your heart for its better to fall from your happiness, than to fall from anyone's advice..

055. "the only true painful goodbyes.. are the ones that are never said and never explained.." 10.Oct.07 zerylle

056. it's easy to say good bye but too hard to forget. why? because love is more than words can say. once you've fallen, you can't help but fall over and over again.. so even if good byes have been said, there's something in the heart that says, "please stay..." why? becz it's LOVE and the reason is UNKNOWN. despite the pain and the heartaches.. LOVE will always retain its pride, its sweetness, its MYSTERY..

057. "it's hard to wait around for something that you know will never happen.. but it's also hard to stop when you know it's everything you've always wanted.." 05.Nov.07 jop

058. love not too much, but real. prepare to get hurt, but don't complain. love is not being happy all the time, feel free to cry for awhile, but love like you've never lost your smile. 06.Nov.07 annica

059. people say i'm strong because i'm numb to any pain. actually, its my special technique. what they don't know is that i had to break my heart a million times just to master it..

060. what really matters in picking your chocolate is not the sweetness, but its capability of making u happy no matter how bitter it could sometimes get. you can always crave for any, but there will always be that special chocolate that's enough for you to forget the rest. a lot like love.. 10.Nov.07 jane

061. short, sweet and practical principle in love: "if it works, then it works.. if it doesn't, then move on" 11.Nov.07 zerylle

062. what makes us fool?
is when it hurts seeing the one u love with somebody still, you keep on staring... 17.Nov.07 em

063. letting go is like getting a tooth pulled out by a dentist. pull it out, you're relieved. but how many time does your tongue run itself over the spot where the tooth once was? probably a hundred times a day. just because its not hurting you doesn't mean u don't notice it. it leaves a gap & sometimes you see yourself missing it terribly. its goin to take awhile, but it takes time. should you have kept the tooth? no, coz ut was causing you so much pain that's why you had to let go.. 24.Nov.07 jop

064. its easy to play with LOVE
easy to hurt the feelings of others
easy to let cry the person who loves you
BUT
its difficult to find a person who really loves you!

065. ever had the feeling?
you attempt and fight so hard to take someone off your mind & off your life. but each time you think how to forget..
you keep on falling much more.. 27.Nov.07 jop

066. have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too much to handle?
we tell lies when we are afraid. afraid of what we know, what others will thing, what will be found out about us. but every time we tell a lie, the thing we fear grows stronger.
life is all about taking risks and it requires you to jump.
don't be a person who has to look back and wonder what they would have or could have had.

067. READ & LEARN:
-Don't spend your lifetime loving a person if you have no plans telling how you feel .. it's SELFISH!
-Love can never be so beautiful without FRIENDSHIP..
-the best of Lovers are the BEST OF FRIENDS.
-Empty is the life that's filled with nothing but THINGS
-if you're enemy is hungry, feed him, if he's thirsty, give him a drink. ul make him burn in shame!
-telling the TRUTH & making someone cry is BETTER than telling a LIE & making someone smile..

068. someone asked me once "would u have still tried even if you knew that it wouldn't work?"

i said: "its like this. championship game. 2 seconds left on the clock. my team is down by 1. i have the ball and i'm open for a jump shot. should i take the shot or not? if i make it, we win & celebrate. if i don't, we lose & we go home crying. i guess i'll still take that shot. & in case i miss the shot, i'd still cry. but it feels a lot less painful knowing that at least i tried."

069. have you felt this feeling: may mahal kana, pero na.develop ka pa sa iba?! hirap, noh? sino bang dapat? un matagal mo ng mahal, o un taong unti-unti mo ng minamahal?!..

070. there's no such person as INSENSITIVE..
"it's just that there are people who DON't WANT TO HURT, don't want to be hurt or pretend they're not hurt..."

071. it's easy to love some who simply makes u smile, talk and stares at you. the only hard thing about that is how to make that person fall for you..

072. "you know sometimes, in order to protect someone we love, 'we keep secrets'" - Clark Kent, Smallville

073. "anyone can make you happy by doing something special but only someone special can make you happy without doing anything.."

074. heart to heart talks
hands together
leaning on shouldaers
tight hugs
goodbye kisses
half meant jokes
sweet compliments
mixed signals
uncertain feelings
unsaid emotions.
---JUST FRIENDS

075. life is at its weakiest when there is more doubt than trust. but life is at its strongest when you learn how to trust inspite of all the doubts..

076. love isn't just the about the words but the meaning behind it.
it's not just "you can trust me" but "i'll never make you doubt"
not just "don't do this" but "let me do it for u"
not just "take care" but "let me hold ur hand"
not just "don't go there" but "let me go with you"
not just "i'm sorry" but "i'll never hurt u again"
not just "i'm here" but "i'll never leave you"
not just "don'y worry" but "i'll never give you a reason to"
not just "i love you" but life has no meaning "without you"

077. a guy who loves you can't actually state the reason why he does. he only knows your the only thing that matters, next to his family.

a guy who loves you, worries a lot when can't hear a word from you even after he just dropped you home. only coz he cares.

a guy who loves you apologizes non-stop even if he knows you wrong, he just wants you to be happy.

a guy who loves you, when he understand what's best for the both of you

a guy truly loves you when after you hurt him, deep inside he still hopes for a future with you..

078. it's like once i've been hurt, i'm so scared to get attached again.. like i have a fear that every person i'll start to like is going to break my heart..

079. when something is over, it can never start again. when it's broken, you can never put back the pieces. life is not the way you want it to be. when you know that someone is hurting you so much, just stop. we know that it hurts a lot, but you must learn to let go. don't push yourself too hard, coz we all know that in every ending, theres such thing that we call beginning.

080. "i retrieved broken promises among the shattered pieces of glass, each sharp end pricked my soul as tears & blood flowed down to the ground, forming muddy mirrors i saw what could have been, what should have been & what must have been. i traced back the past only to find the one that i have lost in the beginning.." - Broken

081. it's hard to run from a feeling that haunts you every now and then. it's painful to tell your heart that you don't need it. you keep on pretending that you are better to be alone, when in fact you feel so empty... but why take chances if you see no hope? why try if there's nothing to win for? sometimes, it pays to wait. never hurry. let infatuation die a natural death & give birth to true love when its time..

082. when i was in grade school, they told me to write down what i wanted to be when i grow up.. i wrote down "happy" they told me i didn't understand the assignment. i told them they didn't understand life.

"it's easy to get something by means of hard working.. but it does not necessarily mean that you'll find happiness on it..

083. A BITTER THOUGHT:
.. if someone lied to you, it always ends with two conclusions.. its either..
it was for your own good or
YOU WEREN'T GOOD ENOUGH TO HEAR THE TRUTH..

084. a wasted moment can make you regret so bad.
a single mistake can change your whole life.
from then, you'll see how the little things you ignore meant everything when they're gone..

085. it's a mystery why people still fall in love after a heartbreak and risk getting rejected and hurt all over again. i guess is the dream of finding true love or simply because life is happier when you're in love..

086. one cannot question the existence of feelings. they are there - raw and undeniable. but one can choose not to nurture what is really felt. yet no matter what they say, what has been felt will always be more honest than what was chosen. hence, true realties are not built by the mind but by the heart..

087. to be loved is to live in someone's heart. don't hold something in your arms that you're not willing to hold in your heart.

088. "what if you waited for you special someone your whole life and later on learn that no one is waiting for you? true love is worth taking chances for. sometimes, you don't know why things work out, they just do." - the LakeHouse

089. its sad when people you know become people you knew. when you walk right past someone like they were never a big part of your life. how you used to be able to talk for hours & now you can barely even look at them..

090. sometimes you feel you're done waiting & holding on. but its amazing how feelings are gone one moment, & later renewed by a simple song that reminds you of his voice. the way he makes you smile and you're completely clueless why. the way you look away once you realize his staring back at you. & then d hurt comes back all over again & again..

091. when you don't feel good right now, try sitting down and think of the things that made u feel bad but u must accept that there are so many things beyond your control, try not to be affected, just smile & think of good things. remember, being happy has always been a matter of choice.

092. "when i speak about love - its really love. if you don't believe me, its not my problem anymore"

093. "if only i knew that i would be misjudged, i should have keep this love to myself and never let it shown"

094. absence makes the heart go fonder.
'i don't think so'
absense may trigger your feelings for someone. too much absence may lead to forgetting a person..
'i tried.. i experienced.. & i failed'

095. you cannot be the best for me if you cannot accept my worst

096. when you love, you need to take risks, even if it takes you a lifetime

097. when you can't remember why you're hurt, that's the time you're already healed.

098. if you look inside a broken heart and see how much it cries, you'll find secrets, promises and lies. but what you'll see the most is how hard it tries to stay strong when nothing's right and everything is wrong..

099. pretending to be friends with the one you love is like breathing underwater. you can't hold it too long coz if you do, you won't make it out alive..

100. if theres one thing i've learned from falling inlove - is to stand up no matter how painful the cuts; to fight for what i believe in; and to wait.. because even if i think now is the right time to give extra effort - waiting is even more worth it. especially if i love that person so much..